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little kids big brother
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i started babysitting this nine year old girl every wednsday and friday from four to eleven about three month ago. she goes to bed at eight thirty but her older brother gets home around nine thirty or ten from work but i stay until his parents get home so they can pay me. he's 27. he started hitting on me the first wednsday i started babysitting. then about two weeks into it, the fourth time i babysat, i was washing dishes. he came up behind me, put his arms around my waist and started kissing my neck while he was putting his hands up my shirt. he said that it was time for me to stop 'teasing' him. i don't think i was teasing him, i dont dress revealingly or anything and i usually have something on my clothes by the time he gets home.
But anyway, i told him we shouldn't do anything, but he is really cute and it did feel good, but i didn't want to get caught by his parents. i didnt want them to fire me. well we didn't hae sex but he did rub me through my jeans and he pressed his penis into my back. but the next week he came home early and we did have sex and we have been keepingit a secret since then and now i want to stop because it makes me feel guilty. my bff said i shouldn't beaccuse he took advantage of me because he's the adult and he told me that he would tell his parents that i hit on him and tried to sleep with him if ii stopped. i don't know what to do i want to keep babysitting carly because shes kind of attached to me, but i dont want to be pressured when her brothre comes home.pleae help me.
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wow. If you honestly want this to stop, you need to talk to him about it. If he threatens you saying he'll tell his parents or anything like that then tell yours! He could get in so much trouble for this. As for little Carly, don't worry about her. I mean, of course you've two grown attached to each other, but eventually she'll grow up. A babysitting job isn't worth the guilt that he has put you through. Stop this while you still can before things get worse.
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Okay i hope you realize that this is considered rape, seeing that you are not an adult and he is. I would stop doing stuff with him, you are there to watch the nine your old not have sex. Their could be serious issues if the parents find out and if they find out why wouldnt they tell your parents. You need to explain to him why you should stop! Good luck
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You should definately stop and if he keeps bothering you then tell someone... even if you are scared. More than likely he isn't going to run around telling people because with your age difference that is considered rape even if it is consensual. This isn't your fault. He is taking advantage of a young girl and he could be in serious trouble for that. I wouldn't even want to babysit for people with a son like that. Good luck!
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So stop. Flat out tell him you're done with him and for him to leave you alone. You're not comfortable with it and shouldn't be pressed to have sex with him if your afraid he'll tell his parents. If he is going to go that route, simply defend yourself and show he's wrong and that it was vice versa.
You might very well be in trouble of losing your job, but if it comes to him telling his parents, simply tell them what happened and say you made a mistake and that he was the one who was pressuring you into doing it. Then he gets in trouble because you're still a minor and he winds up in more trouble that he would want to be in.
Hope that helps.
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I would stop babysitting them. I mean yeah the kids feelings are important, but your safty is more important. You don't want to get into a situation that you can't get out of or just get in trouble. Maybe you can still visit the girl when the brother isn't home, so she doesn't lose you completely but i would try my best to stay away from him.
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