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okay so im annoyed. my parents dont let me hang out with guys. and it sucks because im friends with A LOT of guys in my school. and so sometimes (like today) my friend asked to come over my house friday and swim (a girl) and i said id ask my mom cause i wanted her to come and swim at my house, and then later on my friend asks if her AND this guy can come over and i told her i was busy but im really not, but i dunno what to do cause im just so mad my parents wont let me hang with guys. please dont say 'talk to ur parents' cause ive tried. but i can only hang with guys if its at someone elses house and my parents dont even know. i dont wanna say "i cant hang with guys' because ppl have seen me hang with guyys. (im SO sorry if this is confusing) i just dont know how to tell my friends, and a lot of them are guys and i just hate when people wanna hang out, i feel so excluded.
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Okay I remember those days also. My parents were like that too. Maybe you need to talk to your friends and let them know that you can only invite girls right now. I'm pretty sure that you are not the only one. And as far as saying that you can't hang out with guys, it's more like you can't hang out with guys at your house. Believe me it doesn't help with the parent situation at all if you have been hanging with guys and they don't know and catch you. You really need to talk to your parents about how you feel.
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Hey.I`m pretty much in the same boat as you with guys. I hate to break it to you, but there really isn't anything you can do but talk to your parents. If you go behind their back and they find out, that pretty much kills any amount of trust they had in you and what privliges you had. Just tell them that not every guy out there is going to cause trouble with you. You just get along with a lot of the guys at school and have fun with them. Ask them to at least let you have a mixed group of your girl and guy friends over as sort of a trial run and they can see that you aren't trying to do anything you shouldn't be doing. I'm sorry if this really doesn't answer your initial question but there really aren't many options in a case like this. Good luck, hope I helped even a little. ♥ fabulous
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wow, that really sounds like a bummer! I hear ya, most of my friends have always been guys...
And now, since your parents don't seem to listen or understand, try talking to your friends. Tell them the situation. Hopefully they'll understand and figure something out along the way =)
good luck!
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Tell your friends, if you can't tell your parents. If they really are your friends, then they'll understand.
"Ack. My parents have a thing about boys. I can't hang out with them out side of school, unless the parentals don't know about it. It's so lame."
But yeah, definitely ask your parents why you can't hang with boys. They don't have anthrax. :]
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