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ok this kinda goes here but someone please help
Ok well a while back my sister (who is 14 and i'm thirteen) was looking through her old school pictures and she found one of third grade and so she decided to go on myspace and see if anyone had one and she only found one so she started talking to him and then she left her messenger on one day so i got on and told him i'm jessicas(mysister) sister and so then we started talking for a few months and we started to like each other and we promised each other that when either of us get a car we would drive out to see each other cause he lives in new hamshire and i live in wisconsin so we stopped talking for like a couple months then he messaged me saying he's sorry if it felt like he pushed me away but he got grounded and that he missed talking to me and what not so i really like him even though the last time we saw each other in person was when i was in 2nd grade n he was in 3rd so bascially does he like me i mean by reading this well i mean he says he does but i dont know someone help basically whats your opinion on this situation thanks in advance and please dont judge
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oh god. we have waaay too much in common.
honey, i've been in a similar situation to the one you're in for about 2 years now and have no idea what to tell you. the guy i'd been practically in love with forever moved to new hampshire in 4th grade. we didn't talk for 3 years and then i found his email address and we talked for a long time. it lead up to an "i still love you" (from him) over aim, an emailed "i love you too."(from me) and then awkwardness ever after. now we don't talk much, and i like someone else and i'm sure he has a girlfriend or something. so i really don't know what to tell you, i guess just after seeing this question i felt too much empathy to not say anything to you.
i guess i'd just say listen to your heart. it's so cliche, but i believe that everything happens for a reason, so there's got to be a reason these long lost friends who live in new hampshire are in our lives.
if he says he likes you though, and the pain of a long distance relationship is worth it to you- i say go for it girl. you can make it work.
if this answer is good for nothing else, i thought it might be helpful to know that you're not alone (:
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He might, but to get into a relationship would him would probably be a stupid idea. First off, there's your sister who might get mad at the idea, or even the fact that you guys have been talking behind her back. And secondly, he lives far away from you. A relationship might not work out.
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this kinda sorta happened to me.
i think he likes you, but he might not want to admit it.
i also think that his [and probably yours too] will change within the next two to three years.
long distance relationships are really hard to maintain, but i suggest to keep talking to him, just don't get romantically involved.
what happened to me was there was this guy in a different city [one year older than me] and it was my friend's exboyfriend. we started talking to each other on the messenger until he liked me and i liked him but he didn't tell me is 'cause i "was too weird." i only reason i know now 'cause he told me a few monthes ago that he liked me, and that he still likes me. but now, its all different and he doesn't like me anymore.
so yeah.
hope i helped. x3
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Im sure he does, but its hard to tell what a guy is thinking when he is in the same room as you, let alone what he is thinking in a different state. You have 3 years until you can drive. A lot can happen in 3 years. I would keep in touch then in the future who knows...maybe you will be a cute couple. =)
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