so basically my guy friend has his first girlfriend so now evrytime i call he says " i talk to ulater JJ called" and if i suggest we do sumfin he sayz " i m goin wit JJ" and when i try to c him in school his ignore me becuz JJ is wit him
now im tried of JJ being everywhere !
what should i do
christina answered Sunday April 29 2007, 11:22 pm: Talk to him about it. He probably doesn't realize he's doing it, and you need to lay off a bit. Yes, it's frustrating because you feel like you've gotta share & you guys never have any alone time anymore, but this is his FIRST girlfriend. It's not like she's gonna be his last or his only, but he's excited & if you take it away from him now it's not gonna make things any better for you. Just talk to him, and tell you how you feel about it. If you don't see any changes, distance yourself from him for a while. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday April 29 2007, 8:26 pm: Your Question: "What Should I do?"
My answer:"Fuck him"
You cant force someone to be with you. You can only try this much. And you cant...but be yourself. And if you try too much...then its not worth it.
So yeah, fuck the sell out. You ll find new better friends to hang out with. And the sooner you find them, the faster you feel better and forget about him. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Sunday April 29 2007, 8:22 pm: Talk to him. Since he does have a gf, he's probably trying to split his time between his gf & his friends. If you really feel like he isn't giving you enough time, tell him. He should still talk to you/hang out with you, even though he has a gf. Maybe one day a week you guys can make time to just hang out together without his gf around. If he doesn't do anything about it, let it go. You can't change his mind, but you can talk to him.
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