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back to stage one: not talking.


Question Posted Thursday April 26 2007, 10:06 pm

okay well this is the 7th time me and my boyfriend have gone out over a period of about two years now.the last time i broke up with him because he never talked to me. we're in the same school but hes a year older than me but our grades share everything. i saw him everyday but he never talked to me so i dumped him and went out with this other kid like 3 days later and we dated for like 5 months.and i broke up with him to date my ex. anyways. i feel like we're back at stage one. but worse. he not only ignores me at school, but online, never answers my texts, and whenever i ask him to hang out he either says ok he'll ask and then never does, pretends to forget and hangs out with other girls and stuff. and it really pisses me off but i try not to show it and when i DO talk to him, i can't help but be a bitch because he pisses me off. i really like him alot, he's my everything. by the way, i'm in 7th grade and hes in 8th. what should i do? i dont want to break up with him as like a wake up call because that wont do any good, i know for sure. any other ideas? sorry this is so long.

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FlipShawtii answered Wednesday May 2 2007, 4:20 pm:
ppshh my ex was the exact same way. dump him hun! he's not shy!!!!!!! i mean he talks to other girls right? so why can't he talk to you? arrgghh whatevs. just dump him, you don't deserve him, you need someone who treats you much MUCH better. trust me babe i was in the same situation, mine was ignoring me too and i felt like a worthless piece of crap cause that's not the way you treat your girlfriend. what an ass! hope i helped!

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Depressed_Poet answered Friday April 27 2007, 5:06 pm:
He's an ignorant asshole. Dump him. He's too immature and cocky for a real relationship with you. And the only thing he wants you for is to show off to other guys so he can say, "Yup, that's my girlfriend!" and brag to the rest of his guy friends. Needless to say, he's not worth your time and/or effort to change-- OR EVEN TALK TO!!! It's nothing personal if he wants to go out with you, if he still wants to go out with a bunch of other girls that he blows you off to be with. I hate to say this, but you're nothing special to him and neither are those other girls. If you have to be a bitch to him everytime you guys talk, who's fault is that? His. He's the antagonist. So good luck!

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christina answered Friday April 27 2007, 1:53 pm:
Either he's really shy, or he's just an ass. Break up with him. Chances are he doesn't like you.

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AskJR answered Thursday April 26 2007, 11:28 pm:
What is your problem girl? Can't you take a hint?
He does NOT like you.
Hint-hint-hint.

I don't know how you can say he is your boyfriend when he won't talk to you, especially at school, answer your text messages and then says he'll "hang out" and never does.

He likes other "girls" = plural with an "s" not any one girl, but he's a player.

Why would you break up with him for all those reasons then go back and have those same reasons be worse than ever? Dump him.

Don't ever look back-- he's bad news for you. He does not give you what you need so why bother with him?

There are so many other guys out there that would love to have your attention-- so find them-- that's half the fun!

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