I met this boy through an organization a few weeks ago. He goes to a different school, and is about 3 years older than me. He's a senior, and I am a sophomore (he's 18, and I'm 15).
Anyway, we've been texting a lot and he randomly told me that he liked one of my friends. This friend is now pretty much in a relationship. I called her and asked her, point-blank. She is leading this boy that I met on.
I was this boy's crutch through a really tough breakup with his ex of almost 2 years. I like him a lot, and I don't want to see him get hurt again, at least not until his heart has healed.
Should I tell him that this girl is leading him on, or should I let him find out for himself?
MadvicerM answered Tuesday April 10 2007, 2:40 pm: i actually can relate to this. i also like a guy who is 3 years older than me. and it can be hard. if you really care for him then tell him about this girl.
but remember not to sound like you're jealous because jealousy will get you nowhere. its true.
dont sweat and guard your heart. girls can get deep into relationships slower than guys but we have a harder time healing our hearts. guard it girl. be a good friend to him [ MadvicerM's advice column | Ask MadvicerM A Question ]
tammijo answered Tuesday April 10 2007, 11:40 am: You should go ahead and tell him, but only tell him once and don't get mad if he doesn't listen, because there is a chance that he won't. [ tammijo's advice column | Ask tammijo A Question ]
Debateist answered Tuesday April 10 2007, 5:29 am: You are in a bit of a jam arent you ? on one hand you have the loyalty of your girl friend and on the other you have the loyalty of your guy friend. I think wot you should do is tell the girl that if she doesnt tell him then you will just explain that as much as shes your friend you dont want him to get hurt.
This way as much as she may b a little pissed at you for telling him if she doesnt you can remind her that were she in your situation then she would have probably done the same and that way you will have given her the choice.
Hope I helped and that all works out well.
good luk
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