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E-mail: tammi
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Location: Alabama
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Age: 21
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ok i got this thing in the mail that said i could be in national american miss. but the thing is, i'm fat. 5'2 13/f 145pounds. i really want to be in it, but do you think they will accept a fat person? i have a bigger stomach then butt. but i'm just plain fat.
please help me
p.s. i have to answer in 9 days (link)
I got this same thing in the mail, and I'm almost 22 years old (it's only for girls up to 18 I think). I think that it's just a scam because they ask for an application fee. I would give this more thought, but if you really do want to go ahead and apply, you do have a shot.


I'm looking to get a pre-paid cell phone. Here's what I need:

-Pre-paid
-Free nights and weekends (optional)
-free texting

I don't mind paying for the talking I do. It also needs to be a phone I can get at a store. Not ordered.

Thanks!! (link)
I have alltel and it has all of that with the 70 dollar plan plus 700 anytime minutes. I shopped around before buying and that was the cheapest and easiest way to go.


Pain is the only thing I can say to explain my stomach lately. My stomach hurts so bad its not even funny, i feel like crying all the time. Yes i`m on my periode but its not that kinda feeling, its not cramps its worst. anyone have any idea what it could be? (link)
You could be constipated or have a stomach ulcer, either way you do need to go to the doctor and have it checked out. If it's an ulcer that means you have some bad bacteria in your stomach and you need medicine to get rid of it.


Okay, so I go to this really like.. stupid school.. as in, I'm smarter than like 90% of people there.. So that means I get a high class rank, etc. & even free community college because of that.

Unfortunately, living with my mom is a complete hell. Honestly, it is pure emotional abuse with her. Of course, she IS a mom, and she does have her really nice moments, but she says I always have an attitude and completely goes off on me for that, saying I'm stupid and irresponsible, etc.

Everyone tells me that I'm about the nicest person ever and that she's wrong.. Even my dad. Which is why he divorced her. So, I sorta want to live with him, even though he is never home & always working & sometimes he can be a little harsh. Also I would be going to a sorta hard school and no free college or anything. & no seeing my boyfriend in school.. :[ & having to make new friends & stuff

So.. Should I stick it out for 3 more years or start a whole new life.. with more challenges :[? (link)
I think you might should consider going to you dads. If your as smart as you say you are, you need to be challanged as much as you can. What are the pros and cons of the different schools? Does the school at your dads offer more opportunities for you? That's just my input, you really are the only one that knows all the circumstances, and you should think really hard on what you think is best for YOU. Good Luck!


i need to know how do i know when my husband is pleased with me sexually? my husband is my best friend but at the same time i need to blow his mind on a sexual level, and need to keep him totally happy as he has me. can any body help me? (link)
Give him lots of blow jobs! LOL
That's what I do for my boyfriend, because he is the best lover I've ever had, and he deserves them.


okay i cant find a good deoderant that keeps you smelling good all day and dry all day..and its really hard to trust the commershals.
please help. i need as many opinions as possible.
thanks in advance (link)
There is a roll on deodorant that you can buy over the counter, it's called Certian Dri. It's really good, I've used it. The directions say to put it on the night before after a shower, and not to wear regular deodorant with it, but I did (I needed to, although I was dry I was still a little smelly). But yeah maybe that will work for you, hope so.


Can someone possibly die from having ulcers? If they're not taken care of/treated? (link)
When you have an ulcer, you have bacteria in your stomach, you need to get the right medicine to get it out. Anytime you leave something foreign in your body left unattended, like bacteria, your bound to have some kind of complications. Go to your doc (or stongly suggest to whoever you know with an ulcer to go see one)!


i have rele bad armpit smell and i wash no scrub my armpit in the mourning but it doesnt seem to work i use deodorant wat can i do to eleiminate or minimize smell (link)
You can use Certain Dri (I think that's how they spell it), it's a roll on deodorant that you can purchase over the counter. The directions say not to wear regular deodorant with, but I did. Hope that works for you, because that really sucks.


i just got it. and its the kind that you put on at night (roll on) and it really itches. like really bad. but for for the first 10-15min. and then it works great in the morning. my questions is is suppose to itch?
and if i stcrath it while its itching (at night) will it affect how it works in the morning.? (link)
I've used this stuff before, and while it does work, it didn't make me itch. So I think that you should stop using it, because it does sound like you are allergic to it. There are other products that you can try, like Arrid Dry, it's a cream that you rub on after a shower.


I met this boy through an organization a few weeks ago. He goes to a different school, and is about 3 years older than me. He's a senior, and I am a sophomore (he's 18, and I'm 15).

Anyway, we've been texting a lot and he randomly told me that he liked one of my friends. This friend is now pretty much in a relationship. I called her and asked her, point-blank. She is leading this boy that I met on.

I was this boy's crutch through a really tough breakup with his ex of almost 2 years. I like him a lot, and I don't want to see him get hurt again, at least not until his heart has healed.

Should I tell him that this girl is leading him on, or should I let him find out for himself?
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You should go ahead and tell him, but only tell him once and don't get mad if he doesn't listen, because there is a chance that he won't.


I am so annoyed. I always have acne. It is like..constant break outs, and it never stops. I dont know what else to do. I have tried everything from clearasil, neutrogena, clean and clear, differin, duac, tea tree oil, clinique 3 step skin care, olay, and alot more. I usually break out around the T zone, my chin, and forehead..basically everywhere. Please dont give me amateur advice. Like..drink plenty of water and get a lot of sleep ( I do anyways. ) Also please dont recommend products that you have never tried. Please recommend what you think will REALLY work for me. And also please don't tell me not to wear makeup because I cant stand to see myself without the acne covered up. I need a moisturizer also because if I dont use it before I put makeup on, than it looks cakey. But that may be because I have big pores in the spots that it looks cakey. Any help for big pores? I would really appreciate your advice
Thanks (link)
Wash you face with a mild soap, and pat dry with a towel, then get some soap on your hands and add a little baking soda (really, it's good for almost everything), add enough of both to make a kind of paste. Rub on your face and let it harden, then rinse. I originally used baking soda and peroxide, and it worked great, but the peroxide bleached my eyebrows, and my face a little..haha, I know. But anyways, I hope you try this, and it helps!


okay so i know this is a odd question but what dose it meen to douche? like i think it has some thing to do with do their but like what dose it do or what is it for??? (link)
You have good bacteria and bad bacteria down there. Douching kills the bad bacteria as well as the good. So if you feel you need to freshen up down there sometime try to limit it to only a few times a year, if not at all.




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