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abuse?or not?
Ok so this is pritty personal.My mom is abusive to me sometimes,not really bad or anything like lets say on average she hits me once a month.not like crazy hard but enought to give me a mark for a day or 2(at least a couple hours)...and is (in my opinion) uncontrolably angry.My dad drinks wayyy too much as well (in my opinion again)a least once a week I hear him puking at night kus he's drunkin so much.almost ever nigh he gets drunk.Also when he's drunk he gets verbally abusave,(calles me things like bitch,ect...)....My question is-what should i do?Do they have a problem or am i just making a big deal of there problems.
It's driving my crazy,also i have a brother and sister alot older then me 10 and 13 years older you be exact,(i'm 14) and they have talked to me about this "problem",i still wanna "fix" it but it seems to me they'v givin up.i don't think they really care anymore and just take it.that also really bothers me.
hope you can help
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No, I don't think you're overreacting at all. The thing I would do is maybe go to your school counselor and talk to them, or if you can, talk to a family member or family friend. It's important that you have an adult help you with this, because the results of abuse can turn fatal.
Good Luck
Jess♥
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if i were you i would tell someone, anyone...... if you go to school tell your counselors, also you can call this number, its a line that totally private and they help you with almost any1, 1-888-kidchat
they should help you, i dont know if you want to live in a foster home or not but you NEED to tell someon, i dont think at all that this is just your immagination, you need to tell someone, also you should tell a friend or a teacher, even though it may feel uncomfortable its better than going through all this pain
hope i helped
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volleyball_chik_0914
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hey sweetie -
i have a friend who's parents are very similar. her mom hits her every once in a while, but it isnt just her as the bad person, my friend can also be a brat to her mother. I think that if you feel that you can talk to your mom, talk to her. but if you cantt and it still is really bothering you, tlak to a friend or a counceler. As for your dad - i agree with the person below me, and you should be a little bit more worried about him. once again, talk to an adult about it.
im sorry i couldnt be much of a help. i hope everything gets better. stayy strong.
xoxo.
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Well, what your mom does, isn't that bad. I mean, why is she doing it? Did you deserve it in anyway? Do you think your mom loves you? Does she pay no attention to you? I mean, if you did something wrong, then she justs so upset with you, thats why. Can you talk to your mom about your dad? Do you have a good enough relationship with her, to beable to say something? I think, you need to do something about your dad. He may get worse. I wouldn't call the cops or anything, because once there involved, well then there involved for a very long time. Can you go to your school guidance counselor? or someone like that? I wouldn't worry so much about your mom, as I would about your dad. I think your mom is probably going through alot. I mean why is your dad getting drunk every night? Is there something wrong in your family? Did someone die? Are you poor? Do your parents not love eachother anymore?
Try to answer those questions for yourself, & go from there. I know that wasn't a whole lot of help. But, I really hope you try to answer those questions, and try to find out what made all these things happen in the first place.
good luck, it'll be ok. (:
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