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annoying
Female/13
I have this friend, and we have alot in common and have so much fun together. but latley we have been getting in alot of fights and we havent been talkng. Now we are talking again but it feels really owkward for some reason. And she is trying to get "in" with this other clique and it is really annoying. everytime i got to talk to her she says o have have to go talk to _____ from the other clique and stuff like that. It is really annoying and i dont know what to do. Should i talk to her (or try to at least) or should i just let her become frinds with them or what. I think i am a little jellous but i cant help it. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?
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wouldn't blame you for being jealous; i would be too.
in all honesty, if you love this friend enough, try to get in with that clique. if you dont have anymore tolerance for her, forget her.
she really doesnt sound like much of a friend anyway. talk to her, get in her face if you have to. you just have to talk to her. be mean, anything, just get your point out. to me, shes being un-friend-worthy and a bitch. you neeed to talk to her.
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I know what you're going through. I had a friend who had a lot in common with me. She was so funny and we had a lot of good times together. But we had just as many bad times. I think it was because we were too much alike. Thats why you guys fight a lot.
I don't exactly know why she wants to be apart of this new clique, but its common for you to be jealous. I was a little jealous too when my friend would hang out with others. I sort of felt left out. But we eventually grew apart and realized we were a little happier and life was better when we weren't as good of friends as we were. Its sad [ and it almost sounds like a "breakup" lol ] but life was much more easier. We didn't fight as much or anything. Maybe this is whats going on with you guys and unfortunately the best thing is for you guys to spend some time apart. The thing is, we ended our friendship over a stupid fight middle of junior year. I pretty much got over it towards the end of junior year. We didn't talk, but I wasn't mad anymore... nor did I ever talk about why we weren't friends to other people [ talk shit I guess you could call it ]. It wasn't until the end of senior year we started talking again really. I left for the Navy and came back and hang out with her a couple of times and it totally went back to how it used to be. There was no awkwardness or anything. 5 minutes into hanging out we were already laughing and having fun. We never brought up the fight or anything. I'm not saying spend THAT much time apart, but just a little. This might not be your solution, but it worked for us and I just thought I'd share it. Good luck with you and your friend.
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you should hang out with a different crowd then. if she isnt a loyal friend then she isnt a good friend. if she comes back though forgive her...we are all humans and we all make mistakes.
-♥good luck! =)
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Try telling her how you want to be friends with her, but you feel like she's pushing you away and you want to know why. If she's all like, whatever and walks away to go join her new friends, you should just leave her be. She's not a very good friend if she's like that, but if she's nice about it and says she's sorry, make sure you tell her that you aren't trying to tell her what to do or who to be friends with, you just want to keep you and her friendship strong.
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hey
wow. exact same thing is happening with me.
well, i can tell you what i did - i just stopped talking to her until she got her act together. i still say hi to her in the hallways and stuff but i keep my space.
yes, def. try talking to her but if she's still mean and doesn't change (like my friend) then just make some space. seriously. don't be friends with people who don't treat you with respect.
it's totally fine to be jealous. i was too until i realized that it just wasn't worth it anymore. let her do what she wants. if she was really your friend, she would listen to you when you tell her how you feel.
i hope i helped, and just please don't try to be friends with her if the "clique" is mean to you.. esp if you haven't done anything wrong. youre probably a wonderful smart beautiful girl who doesn't need drama and unnecessary people who keep bringing you down.
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