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I cant help feeling this way!
13/Female
A couple years ago I had this BFF and we did everything together, we were really close. I dont know what happened but we arent frinds anymore, now she has this ONE best friend that is moving away. I feel really bad for her and I cant help it but I feel like I want to be her friend again so I can be there for her. Is that the right thing to do or would I just be starting a whole other mess of a frindship?
Thanks
-Hal
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Yah, i think that's a totally kewl idea. It's really nice of you to care about your old friend. Just tell tell her that you're here for her and that you want to start hangin' out more like old times. Chances are she'll look at it as perfect timing since she only had one close friend. But, don't butt in too much on their last days together. But be there, you know? OK, good luck!
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Actually, I think that's a really good idea to befriend her again. I would meet up with her, and have a talk with her. That you want you two to be friends again, and you miss hanging out with her, talking to her, etc.
I bet she feels the same way, but is afraid to talk to you and tell you how she feels. So I definitely recommend talking to her, and having a "heart-to-heart."
Good luck! :)
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people drift apart all the time.. some happen to drift back together others just continue life going their own separate ways. so no, you wouldn't be starting a whole mess of a friendship. most likely you guys will become close again, and even if you dont become close at least you helped someone out when they were feeling sad, which im sure u would appreciate if u were on the other side of this situation. :)
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If you guys just kind of drifted apart for really no apparent reason, I would go ahead and let her know that you feel bad about her friend moving away. But if you got in a fight and that is the reason you are not friends anymore, I might not say anything. It kind of depends on the situation of why you guys dont hang out anymore. Odds are it would make her feel better if you told her you were there for her, and you felt bad.
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No, that's a good thing to do. So, before her friend leaves, try telling her you're there for her, and then maybe you two can become good friends again.
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