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What do girls think about guys getting 'aroused' while danci
I know this is a kind of personal question, but I've always kind of wondered what girls think when a guy gets a hard-on dancing with them. So basically, I only want girls to answer this question. Do you like it? Does it freak you out? Is it more of a compliment or is it offensive? Basically, just tell me what you think about when you feel a guy get hard when he's grinding with you, etc. thanks.
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I like it. It's letting me know what I'm doing is right & that I'm turning him on. It's basically a compliment.
If girls don't like it, get freaked out by or or take it offensively, they're probably really immature, or prude.
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its a turn on for me i mean its a compliment it shows me that i turn you on and it shouldnt freak gurls out unless there immauture or pre madonna's you know but for me its a turn on and for those who get grossed out fuck them there are plenty of others who will be glad to dance with on aroused fello lol hope i helped my inbox is always open
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I love it. It makes me feel really sexy and I'm not that great of a dancer, so it gives me a lot of confidence that I'm actually dancing well! It's definitely a compliment. Younger girls, age 13-15 have a smaller chance of liking it because they might not understand it or it may make them feel uncomfortable because it's entirely new to them, but, it all depends on the person. I liked it even without any of the understanding or experience. Only a small part of the female population will think it's gross. And that's just ignorant. All I knew was that he was turned on and that was a great feeling for me. I didn't even know the guy. So, it's really only loosely based on age. You may find a 12 year old that loves it, but then turn around and there's a 25 year old that hates it. Remember too, even if someone does freak out, that doesn't mean they didn't like it. They may be freaking out because they did like it. Girls are silly. They overthink things. If they feel you get a boner they might think "oh my gosh do I have to date him now!!! Does he want me just for my body?? Does he wanna have sex?? What am I supposed to do??" etc. etc. etc. etc. Ridiculous huh? Anyway, if it happens to you and the girl runs away or otherwise reacts badly to it, don't take it personally and don't get embarassed. I'm sure she was just as turned on as you and she is definitely ignoring that part of it. I mean, if she's dancing with you, she obviously likes you at least a little. :)
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Well if a girl is grinding real hard with you and you guys are feeling eachother, than she would like it and feel flattered. But if you are just sort of dancing with a girl and you are don't know her real well, she might be freaked out. It just depends on how well you know the girl. I'm guessing if you are grinding on the dance floor with a girl, it is kind of something most girls will expect. Only immature girls find it offensive or would "make fun of" someone because of it. It just means you are turned on, and its pretty much hard to control. So miss "Imperialistic" at the bottom is the immature girl that I am referring to. So basically don't dance on immature bitches lol Hope I helped hun.
~Sherah
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Sometimes it's flattering to a girl knowing that she's turned a guy on. Only an immature girl would get freaked out or offended by it, since it's something you as a guy can't really help.
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Personally, I really don't mind, because I know it's something guys can't really control. If a guy gets hard while dancing, I just act cool about it and pretend not to notice, because usually the guy is embarassed about it, and I don't want to make him feel worse. I like it when a guy gets turned on by me, it makes me feel good. If your in a situation where the guy gets hard and you feel uncomftorable, then just tell him your really hot and you needa drink and you'll be right back.
hope i helped
xo
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It isn't a compliment. Usually my girlfriends and I end up making fun of the guy once the dance is over with. Guys who get stiff when dancing are associated with being desperate sometimes, especially if they do it with multiple girls. If we don't really know the guy we're dancing with and were hesitant to dance with him in the first place, it's more of an "eww get away from me" moment and could get pretty nasty.
It kind of varies though depending on the situation. Like, there was a platonic guy friend I was dancing with and he got a hard on. It was pretty awkward later and it sucked for him because that's how I figured out he liked me and honestly, getting an erection isn't the classiest way of trying to get a girl and he knew it.
However, if I'm dancing with a guy and our relationship is already lusty and it's gets steamy, I'll probably understand. It won't effect me either way except to confirm what I already know. If I'm actually hot and bothered, only then will I get interested.
I'm hesitant about it because in some ways it's kind of disrespecting the girl. Unless she's rubbing her ass all over you and you're fairly sure she wants to jump your bones right then and there, I would try to not do it.
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