Question Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 8:57 pm
i've liked a guy named .. dan, scine i was in 2nd grade, we went out when i was in 4th through 5th grade. but then 6th through 8th [until now, im in 8th] grade, i was over him. and last weekend we hung out, flirted. he lives next store to me, so were on the same bus and today he sat with me and we listened to his ipod. my plams got all sweaty, and my plams never get sweaty. i was nervous about like what to say and stuff. i neverrr get nervous with other guys! i wanna like .. make a move on him. i dont know like how i should. how should i? how should i let him know i like him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? BriannaBaybee05 answered Thursday February 15 2007, 1:15 pm: obvisiously you still like him. & honestly i think he still likes you too. i deffaintly agree with you that you should tell him so i think the best way would be when you two hang out next. it`ll be better with just you and him so he could honestly tell you how he feels and it might be easier for you to express how you feel. the next time yous` hang out together bring uhp like the past and say something " i dont think my feelings ever went away " and see what he says. from there, be the bigger person and kiss him (= surprise him. im sure he wont mind. hehe. good luck and i hope i helped.
loca1xcel3b answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:14 pm: Just flat out tell him. It sounds like he still likes you, and you obviously still like him. Just let him know how you feel and see if he feels it back. Don't ask when they're are other people around though. Maybe when you get off the bus stop him before you walk away and let him know. That way he's most likely to be honest and not to feel pressured. Hope I helped <3 [ loca1xcel3b's advice column | Ask loca1xcel3b A Question ]
orphans answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:56 pm: flat out tell him. like, while ya'll are sitting there, say.. dan, i.. really like you, and i was wondering if you wanted to go out again. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:22 pm: It would seem you are not over him and likewise he may not be over you either. The best thing you have going for you is a friendship/relationship since the second grade. That's a lot of history between two people your age be them friends or lovers.
I think what you need to do is tell him "You know, Dan we've been friends half our lives already. We tried going out once but we just were not ready for it. I thought I was over you but I'm feeling a way I never thought I would feel about you again. We're older, and more mature. Do you want to give this another try like I would?"
If he says no than that's okay because guys definitely have a lot of respect for girls who are honest and come to them with something of this nature. He's bound to respect you and a friendship that has last that long will continue to flourish regardless of what happens after the revelation.
I think you have to go up to him and tell him without even thinking about it and let it out. You'll be glad you did as you will at least know what he thinks and how to deal with your feelings either way. It looks very, very good for you though considering your history. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:18 pm: yes, tell him you like him. i think thats always the best thing to do because you don't want to freak out about it, not tell him you like him, & miss out on a great guy. so always take that chance! since it seems like you guys are pretty close & friends, just sit down with him & tell him how you feel. tell him that you like him & whatnot, but if he doesn't feel the same way about you & just wants to be friends that you understand & respect that & also you don't want to lose him as a friend. being mature about it will probably impress him. talking about it with him will be the best thing.
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