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why are girls dicks?
ok so me and this guy have been dating for almost three months. ever since we have dated i have had random blocked phone numbers call me saying i am a dick and not to hurt him... and how much they hate me... so i told my boy and he took care of that.. and latly the people have been spreading rumors that i am cheating on him and saying shit behind his back... and he is starting to double think our relationship... and he says he loves me to much to let me go but i am really scared that he is and i want to keep him cause this is the first boy i have really like this much... so what should i do to have them stop saying stuff to me and make my boy not believe it?? please help thanks
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You might love him, but it's not worth it. if he's just going to break your heart because of stupid rumors you should put your heart up in sake. It's not like it came out of the love of his life's mouth. why would they say that? because they're jealous. they're jealous cause they can't have tight relationship like you& your boyfriends. I mean like it's your choice. you either get your heart broken or forget your boyfriend & move on to someone who isn't so into rumors.
I hope i helped.
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if he really loves you he would ask you and he would believe your awnser. and dont listen to those stupid rumors. every rumor you hear is totally bs 100%.
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Let the people say whatever. They want you to overreact, fight & ruin your relationship out of pure jealousy. By letting it bother you, you're only letting them win. I know you're probably extremely mad at these people (which you have every right to be), but unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it. If your boyfriend feels secure in the relationship, he should trust you & know that you would never do such a thing. Reassure him that these people are clearly spreading rumors about you & you would never do such a thing. I hate to say this, but: if he can't take your word, then there's not much more you can do. Atleast you know the truth. Hope all goes well!
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i hate it when girls do that.
they actually call you & told you that?
wow, they have no life what-so-ever.
i seriously doubt that you want to hear this, but my used to be best friend was in the same exact situation & he broke up with her. in her case, his best friend -- who was a girl -- was the one telling him this & who doesn't trust their best friend? they got in a huge fight & broke up. needless to say, they absolutely hate each other.
don't go over to the bitches -- excuse my language, haha -- & cuss them out or anything. that will just piss them off more. do have any idea what the heck their problem is? see if you can figure out, so then maybe you can apologize for whatever it is that you've done. i doubt that you even did anything to them, but oh well.
you need to block those numbers who are calling you too. talk to him about it. i'm sure he knows you well & can tell when your lying or not.
call him & ask him if he wants to do something.
while you guys are out say this & be serious about it ..
"okay (whatever his name is), i know what everyone has been telling you & i really need you to trust me. i would never cheat on you or lie to you no matter what -- i swear. i don't know what i've done to them to make them say all of this, but please believe me. NONE & i mean NONE of it is true. i would never do anything to hurt you & i have no idea what i would ever do if we broke up. i love you more than anything on this earth & i mean it,"
yeahh, & then smile & kiss him. =]
i think if you say all of that & be serious about it, he'll know you're telling the truth.
let me know how everything works out.
good luck!
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thats easy
PROVE IT!
prove you are not cheating on him.
How you will do that is another story, but it can be proven with trust.
Just do alot of trusthworthy things, and kinda keep in close contact with him, and kinda tell him how your day went etc.
Simple things go a long way.
Cj
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You gotta stand up for yourself! Don't let these people control your life. it's none of their business. If they keep bothering you, stand up to them and say, "Look, just shut up because it's getting old. Its none of your business anyways, but since you're making such a huge deal out of it, I think maybe YOU like my boyfriend. Back off." Be assertive and stick up for yourself. Your boyfriend should understand. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will understand that you need to stand up for yourself, and that ignoring these girls is NOT an option. If it was me, I'd tell those girls to Back off before I punched them in the face, but that's just me.
Also try talking to your boyfriend. Sit him down and tell him IN PERSON, "Look, these girls are really bothering me. They're spreading rumors that I'm cheating on you. Right now, I need you to trust me. If you really like me, you will believe me and not these other girls. I want us to be totally honest with each other. Those girl's opinions don't matter anyways, and we shouldn't let them be affecting our relationship."
So tell him that, and he should understand. If he still isn't sure about you after that, then you might have to break up with him. Not permanently, but maybe until he realizes that he was wrong about you. And anyways, you desserve a guy who trusts you.
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haha the title of this is an oxymoron...
ok well maybe these people calling you are jealous.
maybe they just dont want you to date this guy if your guy loves you that much he shouldnt give in to what theyre saying. ignore the people talking about you and tell them to get a life.
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