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This guy i like, he knows i like him, we go to the same school and we speak on msn etc. The thing is on msn he kinda acts like he likes me, like i once done this favour for him and (on msn) he kept saying 'oh, your the best, your so great' for about an hour!!! But then, the next day he didn't mention it at all, he didn't even just say 'thanks'.
He won't have a proper convosation with me in public but on msn he won't stop talking to me. Like, he would talk to me in public like just messing around, but in class (he's in nearly all mine) all he would do is just give me a little smile but not say hi or anything. We sometimes hang out at lunch, but in a big group so we don't speak that much. But, when we mess around he like takes things from my pocket and that.
Is he doing this on purpose?? And what does he mean by it???
Please help xxx
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he might have feelings for you, but he might just be afraid to show you...he might just be trying to get you to notice him in the crowd of people.
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it could be on purpose. i mean like he could be a very shy boy. & it's like way easier to talk on chat cause ya'll have no contact at all.He probably wants to just go up to you and hug you but he has no guts at all. he's those kind of boys that is shy as i dont know what & really gets scard to talk to the opposite sex. i bet that has happened to you once.
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When you're talking to a friend online, it's much easier to have a longer conversation..whether you're shy or not. I know that in the past (when I used AIM to talk to my friends, close or not), we could have conversations for hours. But in person, they'd never be nearly as long. Also, it's much easier to open up to someone online because you're not face to face. When he sees you in class, he's probably too nervous to come up with the words to say to you. To answer your question, I don't think he's doing anything on purpose. I think he's just being himself (shy, drawnback, maybe somewhat nervous). & there's nothing wrong with that. Some people just take awhile to open up to. I know I am one of those people. Just give him sometime, initiate the conversations (to give him some relief) & he'll eventually open up to you. :)
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He sounds like a typical teenage boy. He's probably shy. Yes! Believe it or not, boys get shy too. Sometimes they have alot to say on Instant Messenger, but then when you try to talk to them in real life, they freeze up and don't know the right words to say. I have a guy friend like this. We could talk for hours and hours on the computer, but then in real life, all he ever says is "Hey" or "What's Up?" around me.
I think he DEFINTELY is interested in you. Maybe he just isn't sure how to handle his feelings right now. Have you tried talking to him in person? Maybe that is what he wants you to do. Don't wait for him to make the first move- make it yourself. Definitely try to talk to him more at school. Maybe the next time you're on MSN, ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. (outside of school.) Ask him to go someplace casual like, a pizza place, a deli, or a grocery store. Nothing fancy, just say, "Want to grab a bite at ____ sometime?"
Sometimes boys just act differently when they're at school or around their friends. So maybe if you can hang out with him OUTSIDE of school, he'll act a little less weird around you. Keep the conversation light, just talk about normal things, even gossip if you want to. Try to hang out with him a few times and definitely say Hi to him more often at school. If you guys hang out sometime, maybe the next day at school, you could say to him, "Hey remember yesterday when ___________?" That will start a good conversation.
Get to know him in person a little better before you ask him any serious questions. DON'T ask him if he likes you the first time you guys hang out. If he ask him too many "Do you like me?" questions, you might scare him away. So after a few times hanging out, or just TALKING in person, say to him, "We talk alot on MSN. Would you ever consider us as more than friends?" or something like that. Good Luck & remember, boys can be big babies, even when they're like, 16. Haha.
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Hes probably just shy. It's alot easier for people to talk over the internet, instead of face to face. Because, when its over the internet, you can think about what you wanna say, or ask someone what you should say. But, when your face to face with people, you can't be like to the person next to you.."Should I say.." & then you can't like think forever about what you wanna say either. It's so on the spot. I think hes just shy. Don't be shy though, like instead of waiting for him to say something to you, go up to him. & just be like heyy! & stuff like that.
Just be yourself, & keep talking to him. (:
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