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My boyfriends ex.
I'm 13 & so is my boyfriend Logan*. Were both in 8th grade except we go to different schools. We hangout alot & stuff but here's the thing. He has this ex-girlfriend named Kelsey and everytime we're somewhere and she's there too he always trys to like hide from her & not be seen with me and he says it's because his brother still dates her older cousin and he doesn't want to make things weird for him. But I'm not sure. The other night we were at a basketball game together and he did EVERYTHING he could not to let her see us. I just don't understand it. And he has another ex-girlfriend named Blair that he goes to school with and he ALWAYS talks about her to me. Like "let me tell you what Blair did today at school.." or "you'll never believe what Blair said today.." or "oh my god it was so funny today cause Blair.." and just all kinds of stuff like that. I'm not sure what to do. And I want to say something to him because I DON'T like listening to stuff about them at all but I don't want it to seem like I'm mad even though I kinda am. Ughh. I'm just confused. Someone hellpppppp. <333.
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TELL HIM!!!!!!!!! you just needa come rite out and say SHUT UP! tell him you dont wanna hear bout otha girls and talk to him about how you feel but alot of 8th grade guys are immature so it could just be that
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well if he is doing all he can to avoid this Kelsey girl then you know definately that he is not using you to make her jealous so thats good.....but he could be cheating. But if she knows that you are going out with him than I'm 99.9% sure that he's not cheating.....BUT if u and her go to two different school than maybe......but YOU should know him well enough to know if he's the kind of guy that would do that......or idk maybe he is embarrased just seeing her because they are broken up. Or mayb she said somthing about you behind your back that made him want to look like he's not seeing you. But personally i think you should make a point to let her see you with him when she's around -- try to hold his hand or do somthing like that when you see her. If he's cheating than she prpbably wouldnt that he's seeing you-- Yeah you should definately try to do everything in your power to make sure she sees you with him, and maybe if you do not want to do that ask him about it and if he says somthing that sounds like a lie than that's not good. The reason you said that he said that he tries to avoid her with you -- that his brother still dates her older cousin -- yeah that sounds like a lame excuse to me but you of all people should know if he's lying because your his girl !! -- as for this blair girl -- I wouldn't worry about her because maybe he is just trying to make conversation. BUT if he continuously keeps talking about her day and night then you should say somthing about it. Good Luck !!
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee
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totally understand you i've been there! so its really annoying dealing with ex girlfriends :S ....here's what i'd told him.. you don'te feel confortable about her seeing us together?? are you ashamed of me =( (LOL this is to convince him like you rellay don't like that he's "hiding " you both ...are you afraid of hurting her feelings or something if she see us together???"....and about the other girl I said something like this to my bf .."how whould you feel if I where still super friend with my ex boyfriend?,,i don't think you'll like that,cause if you feel something about each other onces..it can happen again , cause you get along so well! =(...if he doesn't understand ...try to tell the same coments but about Your ex! so he'll feel jealouse or something and then tell him something like ..now you know how i felt or anything " lol well im out of ideas so hope it helps =) good luck! =)
diane
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Logan* could still have feelings for kelsey and just hasn't let go yet. Tell him that it upset you. I have dated plenty of guy that have talked about their ex's constantly, most of them were just trying to make me jealous. Don't let him get to you, let him see that it doesn't bother you. After a while if he doesn;t stop tell hime that your his girlfriend now and you would appreciate it if he wouldn't talk about his ex's.
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