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i feel like crap .. did i make a mistake?
16/f ok so there is this guy that i have dated( 18 in college) for a year and a half and we ended up breaking up over a dumb reason but the thing is i still love him
he has a new girlfriend( 16 in 10th grade) and everything
and i dont know what to do. he tells me he still loves me and crap and he cheated on his current gf with me so it gave me hope that he still loved me. i asked him he said yes but he loves her too. she she ims me and we start talking and she accidently tells me they had sex and he took her v.. and they only been going out for 2 months! they had sex the first month.. and my heart dropped to the ground. and i was like well he had sex with me 2 months ago too.. and she was like what the hell we were going out and i was like well so were we! and now he told me he hates me for telling her.. i fucked up their relationship and im a hoe. but i never had sex with anyone but him. he told me to stay out their relationship and i was his bitch for a year and a half. she told me and it just slipped out. was i wrong.. idk why i still love him.. idk why she still loves him either HE CHEATED on both of us what should i do. SORRY SO LONG
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This guy sounds like a real jerk. If he is willing to cheat on his current girlfriend, he is willing to cheat on you. He doubtfully cheated on her out of love for you. If that were the case, he would have broken up with her.
Of course he hates you for telling her- one more bit of evidence that he was just using you. He had no intentions of breaking up with her to be with you. And to think he CLAIMED he loved you. Hmmm... Good lever for him to use on you...
He is the one who is wrong, here. Not you- not the other girl.
You can't just stop loving some one. You have to give yourself some time to pick up your pieces, move on, and get over him. Some one better will come along for you. You don't need this jerk.
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You should NOT be blaming yourself for this. He is the one that did something wrong... not you. You were being honest and both you and this other girl have the right to know when you are being deceived.
You are not a hoe either. You thought that you were in a committed relationship when you made your decision and it's not your fault if you were lied to. It's normal to still have feeling about an ex, especially one that you had an intimate relationship with.
I don't think you have to do anything at this point. You don't owe this guy anything. If anything I would tell him that you have nothing to be sorry for and that he is the one that made the mistake. Tell him you don't want him back anyways because he is a liar and a cheater. If he is having problems with this new girl it is because he himself put himself in the situation.
Don't let this guy make you feel like you are not worthy of being loved and respected. Good Luck and take care of yourself before any guy!
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This guy is deffently a player. If I were you I wouldn't let him paly games with your head. It's completely normal to still love him, you cared for him alot. If you had sex with someone for your first time, it is usual to still have feelings for him no matter what. But don't go back to him if she still wants to date him it's up to her but he cheated on both of you and thats not the kind of guy that you want to be with. Don't let him walk all over you.
hope I helped.
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