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Slut-----> IM NOT!!!
13/f
hey everyone! i have a problem. I pretty sure that some girls in my school think im a slut. I DO NOT do any slutty things at ALL...but these girls are kindof immature like that. I mean, i was at a birthday party and we went to the movies. My friend whom i kind of like, put his arm around me and i put my head on his shouldler. Then later i danced with him a bit. THAT WAS ALL!! i do not see whats so slutty about that. I dont know how im sopposed convince my friends that im not a slut! Its not even me, its them! I really dont want them to think of me as a slut because im not. I did talk to them about it, but im sure that there is doubt in thweir minds. Please, how do i convince them?
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Hey. If they don't call you one they probably don't think so and are just jealous. They're not your friends if they are calling you this. Don't confront them again or they'll just think you're paranoid or stuck up about thinking you're one. Just be yourself and it's okay to do what you did so don't even think about it. Just be yourself and they won't think anything of it. I hope this helped and good luck! =)
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If they don't call you a slut, then how do you know they think you're one. If they still think you're a slut or whatever, then they're dumb & obviously not your friends. Or maybe they're jealous of you.
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There's nothing even remotely slutty about any of that. I know girls who do much, much worse things than that, and none of them get called sluts.
They probably don't think you're a slut. If they do, they'd say so. In the meantime, just relax. Nothing's happened yet, so don't worry.
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If they are treating you like that, by saying you are a slut, then maybe they arenot really your friends! I know this may not be the perfect advice, but try looking for other friends, that will respect you, not call you names! Good luck~
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ask them 'how am i a slut' and when they say all the stuff you mentioned tell them the real reason and the real thing that happened.
they're not friends if they say stuff like that
even if they're joking
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There really is no way to convince them other wise. All I can say is ignore this, if they would liek to be immature then let them it shouldn't stop you from having fun or loving life.
Hope that helps ya.
--Syd
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