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Should I cross the line......
I've been in love with this guy now (ever since 8th grade), I'm still in highschool. He's a teacher and I'm pretty sure he's into me. We touch and have our "moments". I promised his one of his family members that I wouldn't get him in trouble but lately we've been all over each other. He's so perfect in every way. What should I do?
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Well, you know that is bad - he knows that is illegal and he'll lose his job, police trouble etc.
And you both know that eventually you will get caught, it happens - it always does.
That being said, do you still want to have a relationship? If yes, drop out of school. If no, then stop, stop now.
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I'm not gonna sugarcoat anything, so if this sounds rude, I'm probably not sorry.
Anyways, with that said...
Are you an idiot? Is he an idiot? Are you guys idiots!? Like, seriously, what the hell are you both thinking?
Yeah, I get it, he's hot, you like him, you're hot, he likes you. But if he was the perfect guy, he wouldn't want anything to do with you outside of the classroom. He is probably way too old for you, and you guys are taking a SERIOUS risk.
If he gets caught, he'll lose his job, go to jail & be convicted as a sex offender, no matter if you're the legal age of consent, or not. Teachers dating students is never a good idea. Even if he didn't teach at your school it'd still be wrong.
If you love him and are "into" him, you'll break up with him. If you cared so much about it, you wouldn't let him take the risk of losing his job & his life by being an idiot & rinkydinkying around with a student.
Also, don't make promises you can't keep. Just do what's good for the both of you & break up. I realize you're "in love" but it's the best thing to do. If you decide to stay together, both of your lives will be raped hardcore in the ass. End of story.
♥T!NA
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How old are you anyways? Thats not a very good idea to date a teacher, that means hes like some sick perv. .. so hes obviously not perfect in every way. Even though, that I think age & all that has no limit, but a teacher shouldn't be dating any students whatsoever. Hes a pedophile. Hes risking alot doing that, & theres no way he doesn't know it. So, if you care about him & stuff..then break up with him. If anyone ever found out [which eventually someone would] he could go to jail & lose his job & stuff.
Its not worth it, & since your in highschool, theres A TON of other guys, that are your age.
If I were you, I'd tell my parents. If you break up with him, & he really is some pyscho [& he just isn't a major perv.] he could harm you. & don't be fulled just if hes really nice or something. Seriously, tell your parents. or another teacher, your principal, anyone. People like him, need to get introuble, before they go messing up your life, or some other kid.
Even though [I'm sure] its hard for you to do that, its better safe then sorry... right?
I hope that helped.
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First, how old are you? If he is caught with you, he risks not only his job, but also his freedom. He could be jailed (depending on your age). Even if you're above the age of consent, he would still lose his job if your relationship came to light. That's just the repercussions on *him.*
You may think that pursuing a relationship with him is a great idea. It's not. You are setting yourself up for pain which will leave a lifelong scar.
If you're not far from 8th grade, then you are too young and your guy is a pedophile. If you are even a senior in high school, and he's a teacher you've known since 8th grade, that means that he is at least 26 years old. He is WAY too old to be having a relationship with a teenager. It's even more gross if he's some married 40-year-old or something.
If he were "perfect in every way," he wouldn't want to have anything to do with you outside of the classroom. His doing so violates a sacred trust that society places upon its teachers.
So what should you do? Break it off, NOW. Sorry it's not what you want to hear.
Sabine
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Wait you're a student and he's a teacher...
Love isn't about gender, age, religion, etc. But getting "involved" with your teacher and persuing it from both sides is a bad thing to get into especially if you're still in school. Sooner or later someone find out and he will be fired or be forced to quit. I can't tell you and say "Oh, omg he's a teacher. Ew what's your problem stay away from him.." blah blah. But you need to think about this. You're a student..he's a teacher. It would come off as you trying to get easy grades or him being a pedafile [sp?] --I'm NOT saying that this is the case but to some people it may seem that way and I'm just warning you that it won't be pretty.
Until you're out of high school, you guys should control your emotions for each other and just keep it low. When you're out of school, feel free to do whatever. But while you're still in school, if you continue with your "moments and touching" he will get in serious trouble
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Ok well the main problem is that hes a teacher and you are a student. I know you probably know this but its illegal. He could loose his job if other teachers or the principal or your parents find out about your fling. Hes obviously older than you and as much as it hurts, you have to accept that you should stick to someone your own age. im sorry but i really think you should just forget about him. Maybe when your out of school you could hook up with him later but definatley not when your a student. Im sorry and i hope everything works out alright =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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