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I want to know if he is true
I am completely in love with my boyfriend. We have been together for 10 months but I've had a thing for him way long before we went out...and its kind of complicating but... before we went out and i liked him, he would start liking me and lead me on to think we will be in a relationship but then he would leave me in the dust for another girl..the same girl...twice.. but then they didnt work out but they still liked eachother and it came the day that he had to choose between us and he chose me. Well 10 months later theres this other girl and he talks to her alot and tells her alot about this novel he is writing and tells her how far he is in it but he doesnt tell me these things.....when i was the one who encouraged him to write it and gave him lots of ideas. I would think he would show me things first... so I'm getting really jealous and scared that he will start liking this girl and leave me in the dust like he did before...even though he said he wouldnt and he only loves me...but I don't know if I should believe him. I don't know what to do.
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Well, is this girl you friend? If she isnt then you need to talk to her nd tell her that he is your guy and that you are fine with them being friends but just make it knwon to her that he is yours. If she is your friend she should already know that he is taken and if she is a better friend than she would not try to take your man.
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I think that you deserve better. But then agin he might be better, so, talk to him. Be blunt and honest, and dont hold back. Let him know ure fears, and ask him since when has been into that girll And when you ask him about that girl, be discreet and smart about the way you ask him; that way, if he does like her, he would of accidentally told , without you having to worry about him lying. If you feel that strongly about him, then maybe you should look at your other prospects. Talk to him first. Be careful not to jump to conclusions.
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this has happened to me. i would be cautious though, becuase my boyfriend dumped me. but now he says he likes me again but im not falling for it. i think you should dump him or talk about it one last time and tell him how you feel about the situiation. i hope i helped<3
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Hate to say it, but sounds like he's using you for his back-up girl. Sounds like you are being used as "Good ol' Reliable."
He dumped you twice for the same girl. He came back to you by ultimatum. Now there's this other...
Seems as tho he's trying to get up close and personal with this chick. Why else would he be telling her ANYTHING about his book, let alone things he won't even share with you? Sounds to me like he is using his novel as a way to pick up chicks.
Should you break up with him or not? Well, do you trust him? Sounds to me like you don't (I sure wouldn't), so I'm going from that.
Number one, a relationship HAS to have TRUST and HONESTY. Don't subject yourself to one that is missing either of these important factors. To do so is only setting yourself up for disaster and heartache.
It sounds like you may be in for that old song and dance again- "Here's my new girl, see ya next time!"
This guy has already ripped your heart out twice before. Is he really worth that? Is he worth all of your pain and misery? Is he worth using you as a rug to wipe his precious little feet on? Is he worth you losing your heart?
The answer is a big N-O, NO.
You are worth more than that. You are worth not playing second fiddle.
You are worth not having your heart ripped out for the third time, having it thrown to the floor, stomped on, and ground in the dirt.
You are worth picking up your pieces and finding a guy that doesn't treat you like your just there until some one "better" waves her ass in his direction. YOU are better than that.
You are worth being treated so much better.
You don't know what to do? Do what YOU are worth doing, because I promise that HE is not worth it.
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I would be jealous if i was in your shoes too. Give him an ultimatium. Tell him that you rjealous and you need to know because you dont want to end up hurt in the end over this girl. You may have gave him this talk before but you need to stand your ground this time. You need to really tell him how you feel. If you really in your heart believe that he is going to leave you for this girl, dont keep holding on to this relationship. Its always something better out there for you.
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