I'm 16/f. I'm a virgin. I'm not plannin to have sex til I'm married. I'm just curious how do you get STD/AID?. I know for you to be able to get those diseases if you're havin sex wit a person that's already have it. But WUT IF I don't have it and my bf doesn't have it.. we have sex.. wut would the risk of me and him gettin STD/AID?? can you get STD/AID from havin sex w/o a condom?? or you can only get it if you have sex wit the person wit STD/AID.
PLEASEE HELPPP MEE!!!.
brittx33 answered Thursday January 4 2007, 4:01 pm: In order to get STD/AIDS, one person has to have it, it just doesnt pop out of no where. You can get it without a condom, if one of the people have it. STD are spread through sexual contact- vaginal secretions, semen, sometimes even through saliva [oral sex]. AIDS is passed through semen, blood, breastfeeding,and one more thing, i forget though.
Ahnee answered Thursday January 4 2007, 1:30 pm: You can only get an STD if you have any sexual relation with another person who has an STD. (And you don't necessarily have to be having full sexual intercourse to get one. Herpes can be given from kissing. and remember, Oral sex IS sex). Although some can't be detected right away (like HPV, it can hide in males for months) if a sexually active person gets tested on a regular basis they should be fine. If you and your bofriend were to have sex and you both know for sure you don't have anything then no, it won't just magically appear. And by the way, AIDS is a form of an STD, it can only be given from someone who already has AIDS (either sexually or somehow getting their blood in yours, say you were both bleeding and had open wounds and had them together so you were bleeding into eachother, but that's not likely to happen anyway). [ Ahnee's advice column | Ask Ahnee A Question ]
Igotamonopoly answered Thursday January 4 2007, 1:24 pm: If he has no STDs (and has been checked by a doctor), and you have no STDs (and have been checked by a doctor), then you cannot get an STD from unprotected sex.
If you use a condom, you eliminate 98% of these chances of getting something. Some diseases are transmitted through body fluids (saliva excluded), and some are transmitted just by skin-to-skin contact in the infected area. If he has an STD in his mouth, and you kiss him, you could ge tthe same STD in your mouth.
If you are a virgin, however, you aren't necessarily "clean." Unless your mother had a C-section, when you were born, you could have gotten any and all diseases your mother had.
AIDS is the result of HIV and is fatal and much more complex.
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