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i am 15 i have been sexual active since june 28 and i have had sex alot with my boyfriend but all of the sudden we cant have sex that long because it hurts me. and now my boyfriend has noticed that around my clit its really red and under the lips or whatever its really sensetive and it kind of burns when i touch or he does
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Not to be to harmful, but it could possibly be a desease from your boyfriend. I would stop having sex and go to the doctor ASAP! Don't wait till it is to late girl! Protect yourself!


I'm 16/f. I'm a virgin. I'm not plannin to have sex til I'm married. I'm just curious how do you get STD/AID?. I know for you to be able to get those diseases if you're havin sex wit a person that's already have it. But WUT IF I don't have it and my bf doesn't have it.. we have sex.. wut would the risk of me and him gettin STD/AID?? can you get STD/AID from havin sex w/o a condom?? or you can only get it if you have sex wit the person wit STD/AID.
PLEASEE HELPPP MEE!!!. (link)
You can get this through any form of bodily fluid.


i know there are alot of these questions, but im 16 and me and my boyfriend had sex and it was my first time. i dunno if im just really paranoid, or that since it was my first time, I was ignorant and naive. before having sex we did some stuff he didn't go all the way in because he didn't have a condom, but im wondering if thats what could get me pregante. I'm showing symtoms like my chest hurts and i have insane cravings in the middle of the night, also im having cramps and im no where near my period, could i be pregnate?? Also, our relationship is kinda dying, it's getting more and more boring and little things are starting to bug me. when we first started dating everything was so exciting and never boring but now its just kinda blahh... but i love him, and i dont wanna break up with him, but i want the realationship to get better... how should i tell him that im bored and what should i do about it?? (link)
If your man did not cum inside of you, I don't think you will have anything to worry about. I have had sex many times with my husband, not even on the pill, and he has always went on my stomach or back. We have never been pregnant from pre-ejaculation. If you are nowhere near your period, dont worry about it right now. Maybe your body is changing and your chest is starting to hurt a week or two before you start your period like mine do. If you are bored in your relationship, you need to tell him that you really care about him and dont want to lose him,but you need to shake things up a little more. Go out and do more things together? If he gives you an answer that you don't accept or agree with, then maybe you should think about ending your relationship. You are only 16 honey. There is a lot more out there. You havent even went to college yet! There are so many of men there! oh my gosh! Don't get ahead of yourself and let your man go inside of you with no condom. I never let anyone do it anyway till I was married! I had my first love at 16, and guess what, he is not the one I married. Listen to your heart girl! It tells the truth. Trust me.


Okay, so I am going to college next school year.
I've never been into any real or intimate relationships because there's not a lot of guys to choose from in our school(if you know what i mean...;) ).

I want to attract guys in college. Any ways as to how I can do that?

Thanks! (link)
There is nothing wrong with being yourself. You DONT want to present yourself as being a slut do you? Then again, there is nothing wrong with you starting small talk either. When you go out with your girls, and you see a cute guy you would like to talk to, keep eye contact with him and if you have the guts, walk up to him and say "my name is _____, what is your name? are you having a good time tonight? what is your major?" Men can also we afraid of coming up to you as you are of them.


I'd rather have guys anwser this.

but
If you call a guy beautiful or gorgeous, is it kinda weird for them or something like that.

But would they rather be called handsome or cute

or just all of it is fine.

thanks. (link)
I am a female, but what is wrong with calling a man beautiful? I call my husband this when we are alone. Just think, long ago men use to say, "she is the most handsome woman i have seen." Watch Pride and Prejuice.


i like this girl, but she wont go out with me because of her religeon(she is a jehovas witness) my question is, what are te rules they follow on dating, and the opposite sex and is there a way around them? thanks in advance (link)
My best friend is a Jehovas. We have always had a thing(nothing big) about each other, but we believe that it would never work between us. I am a Christian and unlike them, we celebrate Christmas as the birth of Christ. They do not believe in this. So, we have stayed away from dating each other because of the different parts. We have maintained our friendship through 10 years because of this. We did not want to risk even trying because we would hate to lose that friendship.


The other night me and my friends did a weejee board (not sure how spelt) and it really worked. It was sooo scary. We want to do it again, because these are people like my friends dads and uncles and stuff and they just wanna keep talking to them. Does anyone know if there are any risks of playing this game...or any important things i should know about it? (link)
Oujia Boards are harmless. I have had one since I was a kid and have had experiences on it. I believe that once I talked to my grandmother. I do not believe that there is harm that will come from playing this "game". Others believe that it will release evil spirits. From my experience, there is nothing to come from playing a Oujia Board. Have fun!




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