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Attracting guys
Okay, so I am going to college next school year.
I've never been into any real or intimate relationships because there's not a lot of guys to choose from in our school(if you know what i mean...;) ).
I want to attract guys in college. Any ways as to how I can do that?
Thanks!
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the best way to attract the right guy is to be urself. my boyfriend told me that guys hate girls that act dumb or try to hard. he said what he loved about me, was that i wasn't like everyone else. i wasn't like the rest of the girls. so the best thing to do to attract a guy is to stand out by being urself..because nobody can be like you.
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There is nothing wrong with being yourself. You DONT want to present yourself as being a slut do you? Then again, there is nothing wrong with you starting small talk either. When you go out with your girls, and you see a cute guy you would like to talk to, keep eye contact with him and if you have the guts, walk up to him and say "my name is _____, what is your name? are you having a good time tonight? what is your major?" Men can also we afraid of coming up to you as you are of them.
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Be yourself! You can never fail being yourself.. But also wear cute clothes that might show off a good feature of yours.. Like if you have nice legs.. A skirt can never go wrong or maybe some cute jeans!
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you could wear nice clothes and giggle behind guys. or just say hi my name is __________. and start a convo. then start to giggle and look away.
you can also become their "best friend." you might feel more comfortable. then when they least expect it....FLIRT!
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take the quizzes and it might help^
or you can get this book:
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High Tech Ways to Flirt
written by Cat Schwartz on Friday, September 19, 2003
'I wanna text u up 2nite': Learn to woo your loved one digitally.
For every geek out there looking to flirt with other geeks, here are some exciting ways to do it.
Sexy SMS
In order to flirt via SMS (short message service), you have to know what you're doing. These are the musts.
1. Be quick to respond
No one likes to wait too long for some unskilled SMSer to type. You've gotta get your predictive text down and use your elite skills to show your hottie how fast you can make it work. (Please note: Making tech work quickly and efficiently is hot.)
2. Don't misspell
It's not the end of the world if something is spelled wrong, but it doesn't make you look smart and it also shows you don't know how to use predictive text.
3. Be witty and flirtatious
Here are a few examples you might like to use.
* "I've hacked your mind and can hear what you're thinking about me."
* "Can you feel me in your pocket?"
* "How's your booty?"
* "I wanna text u up 2nite."
* "Meet me in the bathroom in 20."
* "Is that a hard drive in your case or are you just happy to see me?"
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thats 6 ways to flirt in the summer^
OTHER WAYS:
Smile
Look in the eyes
Be yourself - you don't want any guys who don't want you for who you are.
1) With peeps you don't know, have a good sense of humor and be nice and play hard to get
2) Your guy friend who wants you as more, laugh with him, smile at him, play hard to get with him too.
3) and in general, be yourself. Just go with the flow and let life come at you. (And laugh a lot!)
flick /play with your hair
giggle (in a cute not annoyin way)
smile
bite your lower lip
and dont forget the mint!
eye contact
sexy pose
lick fingers
open legs
play with hair
say sexy things
look at his crotch
grab his bum
brush your breast against any part of him
HOPED I HELPED
♥ Flaggal
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ok.. attraction comes in the most unpredictable way. don't you hurry about in being in a real relationship because believe me, love comes in really mysterious ways..
Guys usually go for the silent type of girl but in the end it's your personality that counts.. Be always pleasant and kind.. Don't be a hypocrite and just be yourself. Don't be rude and if there are guys you really don't like, just be gentle.. ok? In dressing up, (yeah... i know..they've no right) but guys prefer brainy girls than girls in mini skirts.. and when i say Brainy- it's not the geeky kind.
And lastly, giggling is a no-no behind a guy's back.. it's more of an insult for him.
glad i could somehow help!
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Well, if your a pretty nice looking girl, just be yourself!! No guy likes a girl who is trying to be fake you know? Dress cute nd be yourself. Let a guy know your interested dont do the secret crush, because thats a waste of time.
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