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pregnate & bored.
i know there are alot of these questions, but im 16 and me and my boyfriend had sex and it was my first time. i dunno if im just really paranoid, or that since it was my first time, I was ignorant and naive. before having sex we did some stuff he didn't go all the way in because he didn't have a condom, but im wondering if thats what could get me pregante. I'm showing symtoms like my chest hurts and i have insane cravings in the middle of the night, also im having cramps and im no where near my period, could i be pregnate?? Also, our relationship is kinda dying, it's getting more and more boring and little things are starting to bug me. when we first started dating everything was so exciting and never boring but now its just kinda blahh... but i love him, and i dont wanna break up with him, but i want the realationship to get better... how should i tell him that im bored and what should i do about it??
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well when you have the baby your life is over. he wanted to have sex, but he was not comitted to you and he is just going to leave when your baby comes. The question is does he deep down honestly love you.
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If your man did not cum inside of you, I don't think you will have anything to worry about. I have had sex many times with my husband, not even on the pill, and he has always went on my stomach or back. We have never been pregnant from pre-ejaculation. If you are nowhere near your period, dont worry about it right now. Maybe your body is changing and your chest is starting to hurt a week or two before you start your period like mine do. If you are bored in your relationship, you need to tell him that you really care about him and dont want to lose him,but you need to shake things up a little more. Go out and do more things together? If he gives you an answer that you don't accept or agree with, then maybe you should think about ending your relationship. You are only 16 honey. There is a lot more out there. You havent even went to college yet! There are so many of men there! oh my gosh! Don't get ahead of yourself and let your man go inside of you with no condom. I never let anyone do it anyway till I was married! I had my first love at 16, and guess what, he is not the one I married. Listen to your heart girl! It tells the truth. Trust me.
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you can get pregnant if he don't stick it all the way in.all he gotta do is ejaculate inside of you and his sperm could fertilize one of your eggs.so yea you probably are buy a home test from walmart or sumwhere jus to be sure if you don't wanna go to a doctor.to tell him your bored jus ask why we don't do this anymore or like now it's type borin but i don't wanna break up nothin.but don't complain over and over again about it guys hate when you do.try doin stuff you guys never done b4 2gether but not anythin that will put you in jail.
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im almost positive your just parranoid.
if he wasnt in you all the way and didnt cum nothing should happen. if he did precum and some got inside you you should be fine if he was no where near cumming. the chest pains and cramps happen. your a teenager, so your body is still going through changes. you could also be getting a cold.
if you do end up missing your period dont freak out. when you worry about things your period comes later then it should cus your body is under so much stress.
but i wouldnt worry to much a bout it now. my friends have been through this before and they've been fine. if you do miss your period. dont metion it to your bf or anyone because like i said when you worry it makes it come later. if you miss it 3-4 months, take a test but at your age your body isnt ready for a baby so it wont usually let you have one and you might get a mis carriage
hope it helps..Sam
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Eesh...
Okay, you can get pregnant from incomplete insertion of the penis into the vagina. All it takes is one sperm getting into your fallopian tube at the right time to make you pregnant. Even the pre-cum which collects on the head of the penis when the man is erect (has a hard-on) can have sperm and can cause pregnancy. Putting his penile discharge anywhere near your vagina is dangerous. If you don't want to be pregnant, do not let him put his penis even at the opening of your vagina without protection. You say you're nowhere near your period. That means you probably are not pregnant, but experiencing PMS. People usually are most fertile about 14 days after the start of their period, so you may have missed it. Most people experience no symptoms of pregnancy, either, until after they have already missed a period.
Regarding keeping the relationship fresh, I suggest that you think about what attracted you to him in the first place. You must have common interests or experiences. Try to find something to talk about and do with him.
Sabine
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