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myself?


Question Posted Monday January 1 2007, 11:33 pm

14/f

who i am seen as: major prep, stuck up, popular, loves cheerleading, loves anything pink, loves chanel & so on

WHO I WANT TO BE/wat i realy like: lip rings, pac sun, hot topic. stuff like that

don't get me wrong, i like girlie stuff, but i like that other stuff too. i dont know wat to do. theres NOWAY I can tell my friends. thed think im weird.

i dont kno if its just a phase though. what if.. i just want 2 kno wat it 'taste' like?


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sara1yo answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 1:27 am:
Be Yourself. I know everyones saying it but its the truth, if you're friends are only your friends because you're a cheerleader and you're popular then that means that they're using you.

Just try it out, if you dont like it then go back to the pink loving cheerleader.

Hope I Helped.

Sara<3

p.s I'm a cheerleader and I'm popular and I'm what you wanna be so dont be discouraged to be yourself and everything thats supposed to happen will :)

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iloveyoutoo answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 12:47 am:
Well, go out and be yourselfs.

If your friends dont support it, then were honestly not your friend in the first & only care for sterotypes.

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iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 12:19 am:
It could be a phase, who knows. You're probably just growing up & during high school is when you start getting your own style and semi-finding out who you are. People change and theres nothing wrong with that.
I like girly stuff too. I <3 Paris Hilton, Designers, shopping, expensive things, Hollister, pink, whatever. But I'm also in the United States Navy. I also shop at PacSun, Vintage stores and whatnot. I guess I'm proof that you can like WHATEVER you want. Don't let cliques, styles, & labels stop you from anything. Or even friends.
You don't have to tell your friends, theres nothing to tell them. I guess you can tell them you're changing but... who cares?
Good luck with everything. If you like PacSun, go in there & shop! If you like a guy with a lip ring, go for it!
&hearts;

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trlblzr4u answered Monday January 1 2007, 11:52 pm:
Have you ever tried gettting clothes from those stores? Hot topic and Pac Sun? If not why not try it out. You should be able to do all that stuff, especially when you young. So take a look and see if you really into that or not. Take a chance and get an outfit, put it on and see what you think. Don't worry about friends. If they understand, they will still be there even after you change the look.

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iloveaar answered Monday January 1 2007, 11:49 pm:
try it! your friends should love you because of who you are not what you wear or what you prefer...if they don't accept the things you like ..then they're not real friends =(


Diane

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