Question Posted Wednesday December 13 2006, 5:26 pm
OK my best friends cousin likes me! He's a junior im a freshman and lets just say i led him on...... badly! so here's the deal! he's cute and everything but i dont like him like that! I might be starting to but i really like this other guy! what should i do in this situation????
Just be like,"I'm sorry, but I really only feel friendly vibes between us ; nothing much more. Do you think we could still be friends, at least?" And see what he says. If he needs to time to think ; give it to him. Let him come to you when he's ready to.
Sure it may be akward at first, it's common between people, but it'll only remain awkward if you LET it remain awkward. Just try sparking some conversation adn talk to him likey ou two used to. Try and get some jokes and laughter in there ; that always eases the tension and awkwardness of things, and sooner or later, things'll return to normal.
Teza answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 11:43 pm: Don't lead him on anymore. Tell him that you just want to be friends because it's not fair what you're doing. You don't want to hurt him so tell him the truth. It's simple like that. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
OrangeSoda24 answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 10:50 pm: If you truely dont like the cousin, tell him that your sorry, but you don't really like him. I'm sorry that its not a thourough answer, but thats pretty much all to it, because if you dont like someone just tell them that. [ OrangeSoda24's advice column | Ask OrangeSoda24 A Question ]
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