Question Posted Wednesday December 13 2006, 5:23 pm
okay i like this guy lets call him ....... "Matt" ANYWAYS...... he's really cute, and shy, and he plays football and basketball! he's like the perfect package. NOw he knows that i like him! all his friends told him ........ and ive had enough of him ..... and i cant move one! what do i do?????
ductape_n_roses answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 11:35 pm: You're not making much sense, my dear. Why do you want to move on and why did you have enough of him?
Okay, he knows that you like him..that's a GOOD thing. If he wants to stay friends, let it be. If he thinks you're weird of mocks you with this, then you'll know that he's a total jerk and not even worth your time. If he avoids you, don't feel so bad because, well we're human...
Teza answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 11:28 pm: Well.. why do you want to move on? Just because he knows that you like him? I know that it might be akward now that he knows, but you can't make yourself get over him. It just won't work. Just talk to him and act like as if he didn't know. Be flirty and outgoing and you never know, he might actually start liking you too. If you want to get over him, meet other guys. Like I said though, don't rush yourself. It'll hurt you and you'll just feel like crap because you really like him. Give it time. Don't be embarassed that he knows. I know that you feel weird about it, but don't him that you're uncomftrable with the situation. My point is, don't make yourself get over someone. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
OrangeSoda24 answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 10:55 pm: I was in the same situation with this boy at my school. Sometimes it takes awhile, be patient. It might seem hard, but concentrate on your schoolwork or your friends at school and pretty soon you will have forgotten about him!! It just takes time, trust me i'm still trying to get over the boy at my school and its taken like almost a year!
--Jess [ OrangeSoda24's advice column | Ask OrangeSoda24 A Question ]
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