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friend or no friend?
Met a really cute guy. We went out couple times. He is smart, cute and nice to me. However, I felt that I'm not into him as much he's into me........I don't want to hurt his feeling if somehow he asks me "the question" one day, but I don't want to pull apart either. What should I do to keep just friend with him?
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If "the question" ever does arise, don't make up something or distract him from the question ; it's better just to say it then then keep him lingering around thinking he still has a chance.
Just in a nice tone, just be like,"I'm sorry, but I really only feel friend vibes between us. Do you think we can be friends?" And see what he says. Seeing as he likes you, and he'd probably rather be friends then nothing, everything'll work out fine.
It may be awkward after if he's all quiet or something around you cause he may feel embrassed or stupid, but it's only going to be awkward if you guys let it be awkward. So try starting conversations with him ; ask him about his day or crack a joke, just make conversation like you guys used to before "the question" came.
And like I said, everything'll work out fine.
I hope I helped.
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Do not carry it with him any longer, because the longer you take it the more hurt he will feel when he finds out, explain to him how you feel and i am sure he will understand.
Goodluck, Love Emily
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Tell him you just want to be friends before he even asks. Do it today. It will be much less disapponting for him if he had other ideas. It's always best to have a completely open line of communication with your friends. Don't wait for him to ask. You know its coming. Speak up first before letting it get too far. Good luck. :)
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The best thing that you could do so that you don't lead him on is hang out with him less frequently, but still keep in touch with him. Let him know that you think he is a great guy but that you are better suited as friends. If he truly does care about you, he will understand.
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