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PLEASE HELP ME! ok. I HAD 5 BFFs. Then, I liked this guy and one asked him out 4 me when I told her not to. Then, my "BFFFF" keeps ragging on me about wut I wear and stuff like that. Also, another is turning the "wrong corner". Another talks behind my back. The last one is pretty much all I have left, because she does NONE of those things, and is the most like me. But, what should I do about the others?!
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i can relate to that. i had a best friend and she started telling me i was fat, cause she was soo skinny it was gross, so she started bragging about it and saying i was fat, she was also a jerk to me. we had been friends since pre-school, and we kinda let go. i feel alot better cause i don't have anyone nagging at me all the time.... for your case, maybe you should tell them that they are bugging you, and if they are rude about it, then maybe they arn't your friend after all! i hope this helped!
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The others dont sound like very good friends so i'd just forget about them. But it you feel like you dont want to do that, talk to them about their mean behavior. Tell them how its bothering you.
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serouisly talk to them about it. and if they cant
stop doing what there doing, then thats there loss. dont keep being friends with backstabbers its just not good. so all i can say is talk to them about it nicely and if they still continue to do it then just leave them. (stay friends with the other girl who doesnt do all that stuff tho.)
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Well I think you should discuss this situatiob with them. Ask them why they've been talking bout you behind your back or why rag on you. At first you might think this idea is stupid but if you do use it, it will work. Trust me something like this has happened to me too.
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Screw the others. They don't care about you. They're backstabbers and fair-weather friends...except for the "wrong corner" girl. She has her own issues. The only true friend you have is the last one, so stand by her. To the rest, just say to them, "I'm done with you." They don't care about you, so you shouldn't care about them.
-Beulah
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