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Liking a teacher
I know its really weird, but I've liked my teacher since being in his class last year. I don't know what to do and it is getting awkward just to be around him. Hes twice my age!! What should I do? I graduate this year and I'm afraid I will still like him then.
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I assume you are not 18yo and you are graduating high school and not college. You will have many relationships in your life time. wait till you are of age and reconnect with him when he wont lose his job. you will have much more to offer the relationship. and he wont be a sick man for showing you interest. And i think you should ask yourself some hard honest questions about the relationship you have with your own father. Did he miss treat you? was he not there? If there are issues there deal with them first...
A crush is fine but not when it crosses a line. wait till there is no line to cross.... and see if you still like him.
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It is a harmless crush, as long as you do not act on it. Most important to know is that it will quickly fade after graduation, when you begin dating more mature young men on your own level. Highschool is very limiting, like a little fish bowl compared to the world you are about to enter. Things feel more dramatic and intense in a smaller environment. You will laugh about this crush sooner than you think! I had a similar experience...so I do know what you are talking about.
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There is one wonderful cure for any crush: time and distance.
You shouldn't be afraid of still having a crush on him after your graduate. I promise you, it wont last very long when you aren't running into him regularly and certainly not as you move on in your life to much more exciting things then high school.
Crushes are fine and fun, and you seem to know how unrealistic this one is, so just relax. It will go away if you don’t sit around and worry on it.
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Hah. Not to worry. We've all had crushes on our teachers. (like my uber hot math teacher) We all get over them too. (like i did when he told me i talked too much) You may think you like him a lot, but you probably don't. Within like two weeks, you'll get bored of it because it really can't go anywhere..ya know? Hope I helped! =]
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You answered your own question: he's twice your age. Let it go. The reality is that nothing will ever happen between you two. Don't dwell on it, because it will just make you feel worse. Trust me, this is one of those things you will look back on in a few years and get a good laught outta it. I know I did. Hope that helped and good luck.
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well liking a teacher for some people i guess is normal. i liked my teacher last yeatr but obviously i would never go out with him.
just let your crush pass, because i think dating a teacher is like illegal. well in my school it is. so don't worry about it.
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