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no love?? lol
ok, so my friend (that im not close with) has her first boyfriend. She doesn't even like him, and it's obvious. All of my friends and her friends think she just went out with him to say she has a boyfriend. My friend told me that her boyfriend asked her if she wanted him to kiss her and she said "i dont know." Normally that would be fine, but when she's going around saying OMG im in loveeeee with him and then she doesnt know if she wants to kiss him? If she was truely in love with him, then she would've said something different. Is there something we should do about this situation? or should we leave it alone and let her do what she wants?
ps. i'm not her good friend so I cant have a like serious conversation with her, but my other friends could. THANKSS
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Well maybe just leave it alone?
Some girls are like that. Some of them are unsure to kiss because.. since it's her first boyfriend.. did she get her first kiss? Maybe it's not as easy to do.
Maybe she does like him.. and you're just thinking that. Unless she said that.. but everyone is different at showing how they feel.
Obviously she's not in love.. it's just something new to her.. so of course she will just say it.
You could just say, do you really think you're in love or something?
Unless she said she doesnt really like him.. maybe you would have a talk with her boyfriend but if she didn't then.. it's best to leave it alone.
Because if you get into it.. she might feel like you dont want her to be happy or whatever...and it bring up drama.
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She's confused. It's probably as simple as that.
Leave it alone and let her sort it out. There's probably nothing you could do about it that wouldn't fall firmly under the category of "butting in", and since she's not that good a friend she'd probably resent it.
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Eh, I say it's her life and just let her do whatever she wants. She also might feel ganged up on if people keep talking to her about it, so that just might create unecessary drama anyways. But I say if she just wants to go around bragging to people saying she has a boyfriend and making a somewhat fool of herself, she should go on right ahead.
I WOULD have someone talk to the boyfriend about it though, because even though she can do whatever, he shouldn't have to sit there and take it. I would have someone explain to him how it seems to everyone she doesn't really even know if she likes you, she just wants to tell people she has a boyfriend, and just see what he says, and maybe he'll dump her.
If he does, it might be a good thing, cause then it'll teach her a lesson to not go running around blabbing things, first of all, and second of all, you have to actually really LIKE the guy you're dating and everything.
I hope I helped.
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