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Black mail
14/f/tx
My best friend likes my boyfriend. They went out before I hooked up with him. We've been going out for two months now. The other day my best friend admitted she still likes him and is going to try to get him back. My boyfriend gets really jealous when I'm around other guys. My best friend knows that and also knows that I really can't not flirt when I'm with a cute quy, even if I'm not interested. Another one of my friends told me my best friend was going to use that against me to cause me and my bf to break up so she can go back out with him. What do I do? I love them to death but this isn't right. Please help!!!
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You love this backstabber to death? That's like a Saudi loving King Abdullah to death, it doesn't happen.
So, here's your plan;
You're going to print up some lyrics. The lyrics are going to be by Tool. The song will be Rosetta Stoned.
"10 to 2 AM, X, Yogi DMT, and a box of Krispy Kremes,
in my "need to know" pose, just outside of Area 51
Contemplating the whole "chosen people" thingy
when a flaming stealth banana split the sky
like one would hope but never really expect
to see in a place like this.
Cutting right angle donuts on a dime
and stopping right at my Birkenstocks,
and me yelping...
Holy fucking shit!
Then the X-Files being,
Looking like some kind of blue-green Jackie Chan
with Isabella Rossellini lips, and breath that reeked of
vanilla Chig Champa
Did a slow-mo Matrix descent
Outta the butt end of the banana vessel
And hovered above my bug-eyes, my gaping jaw,
and my sweaty L. Ron Hubbard upper lip,
and all I could think was:
"I hope Uncle Martin here doesn't notice
that I pissed my fuckin' pants."
So light in his way,
Like an apparition, [that]
He had me crying out,
"Fuck me
It's gotta be
the Deadhead Chemistry
The blotter got [right] on top of me
Got me seein' E-motherfuckin'-T!"
And after calming me down
with some orange slices
and some fetal spooning,
E.T. revealed to me his singular purpose.
He said, "You are the Chosen One,
the One who will deliver the message.
A message of hope for those who choose to hear it
and a warning for those who do not."
Me. The Chosen One?
They chose me!!!
And I didn't even graduate from fuckin' high school.
You'd better...
You'd better...
You'd better...
You'd better listen.
Then he looked right through me
With somniferous almond eyes
Don't even know what that means
Must remember to write it down
This is so real
Like the time Dave floated away
See, my heart is pounding
'Cause this shit never happens to me
I can't breathe right now!
It was so real,
Like I woke up in Wonderland.
All sorta terrifying
I don't wanna be all alone
While I tell this story.
And can anyone tell me why
It was a repeat experience
Will I ever be coming down?
This is so real
Finally, it's my lucky day
See, my heart is racing
'Cause this shit never happens to me
I can't breathe right now!
You believe me, don't you?
Please believe what I've just said!
See the Dead ain't touring
And this wasn't all in my head.
See, they took me by the hand
And invited me right in.
Then they showed me something
I don't even know where to begin.
Strapped down [to] my bed
Feet cold [and] eyes red
I'm out of my head
Am I alive? Am I dead?
Can't remember what they said
God damn, shit the bed.
Hey ...
Overwhelmed as one would be, if placed in my position.
Such a heavy burden now to be the One
Born to bear and bring to all the details of our ending,
To write it down for all the world to see.
But I forgot my pen
Shit the bed again ...
Typical.
Strapped down [on] my bed
Feet cold and eyes red
I'm out of my head
Am I alive? Am I dead?
Sunkist and Sudafed *
Gyroscopes and infrared
Won't help, I'm brain dead
Can't remember what they said
God damn, shit the bed
I can't remember what they said to me
Can't remember what they said to make me out to be the hero
Can't remember what they said
Bob help me!
Can't remember what they said
[We] don't know, [and we] won't know (x12)
God damn, shit the bed!"
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Ah hem. Okay. Wow your friend needs a L-I-F-E.
She is NOT your friend!!! She is just a selfish girl wwho thinks the world revolves around them.
You are 14 my dear. Don't say you love someone already. Anywhos just tell your boyfriend the flat out truth.
"You know ___(her name)__ right? Well she likes you and she's trying to get you to break up with me. I know and admit my problems for not being able to control my flirting with guys but you really need to know that you are the ONLY guy that can be my boyfriend and I really don't want you to break up with me.:
something like that. if he doesnt understand...screw him
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well first of all..this girl isn't your friend....she's just probably using you to get back with him......i say don't talk to her...or be all flirty around your boyfriend and stuff...like make-out in front of her or hug him or somin....
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Let's be honest with ourselves. This girl should not be your friend. She's a backstabber. You may be "best-friends", but it's obvious she cares about a boy more than you. No real friend would do that.
The best way to stop her is to tell your boyfriend what she's going to do. He will be on your side and won't fall for her plan.
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First of all, go tell your boyfriend what she's trying to do so whenever she tells him that, he already knows she's lying and won't believe her!
Also I would either have a serious talk with your friend, or just stop being her friend completely. Friends do not go behind friends backs and try and steal their boyfriend from them! Best friends should be happy for eachother, and she should back off of him. So if you do decide to talk to her, let her know that and let her know she's majorly hurting your feelings and why would she choose a boy over you? You guys are best friends, and if they even WERE to date, not all relationships last forever and they'd most likely break up at some point in life, and whose shoulder would she then have to lean on? Nobody's, cause she HAD to have that guy and lose a best friend in the process. "Chicks before dicks," I always say. So try and talk it out with her and resolve the situation, but if she still insisits on trying to steal him from you, I'd back off of her for awhile and cut off communication for awhile until she realizes what'll happen if she does.
I hope I helped.
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