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well their this boy and we went out for like 3 months and in that 3 months he told me he loved me and then i realized that he meant it and that i loved him too! well their was rumors going around about him cheating on me and i believed but in my mind i knew it wasnt true i just didnt want to look stupid if it was! so i decided to get him back by kissing someone n front of his friends so that they will tell him and he would get mad! well that happened and he really got mad and broke up with me i was hurt but at that time i still kinda believed the stories! so we didnt talk 4 a while but we hung out at the same place! i knew he still liked me and he said sorry 4 the rumors and i said sorry 4 listening to them well we started to go back out but he wasnt the same as the first time! we finally had sex the second time we went out but after that we didnt talk that much! i just realized i still loved him and i think he may still love but even thought we havent talked in a while but i miss how he use to be and i just wanna kno wat should i do? i tried moving on but i keep realizing i love him plz tell me wat i should do i need help really bad!!!!!!!!
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Talk to him
Find times when you both are not stressed and tired, and talk about casual stuff as well as how you feel about each other.
Go get something to eat together.
Work out a few rules that you both are comfortable with for how you are with each other in a relationship and as friends.
Don't assume so much. You're over-thinking. Talk to him more. Listen to him even more than you talk.
Luyah
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First of all, never listen to rumors. Even though they might turn out to be true, you still should have asked ur boyfriend if it was true or not. Second, you never should have kissed another boy. Tryin to get back at somebody because you listened to the rumors could hurt them. And you shouldn't have had sex wit this boy, because most boys just want to have sex wit u so they can tell all of their friends. That might be the reason why he doesn't talk to you now because he got what he wanted from you. I'm not doubting the fact that he loves you, but it still is a possibility that he just wanted sex. Maybe he'll say somethin 2 you when he's ready, or maybe you should just approach him yourself.
Hope you decide wut's right!
Mizz nene
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