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Kissing
13/f/Tx
My boyfriend asked me if I was ready for him to kiss me. I've truthfully never kissed anyone before. He's taking me to the movies this weekend. He said if I was ready he wanted to kiss him there. I told him to talk to my cousin because she always knows everything, but he wants an answer from me. What do I do?
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OMG! I have the same thing!!! I am meeting my b/f this weekend and we might kiss, but I don't know so my answers to my question might help you. This is a driect link to my question.
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I think you should do what you're comfortable with. If you're 100% sure you want to kiss him, than do so. If you aren't comfortable with it, than don't kiss him and explain to him that you're not ready yet. If he cares about you, he'll understand. When you're ready to have your first kiss, you'll know. You shouldn't go to your cousin to tell you if you should kiss him or not. You are the only one who knows if you're ready. When you have your first kiss it should be something really special. So wait until you're 100% ready. Then, you'll always remember your first kiss and won't regret it. ♥
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Your cousin shouldn't tell you if you're ready or not and only you can know that. You can't just plan your first kiss.. it's not special and you probably won't be ready. When you're ready to kiss him, you'll know. You won't need someone to tell you that you are. Don't let him pressure you to do it.. ever. So like I said, when you're ready.. it'll just happen natrually.
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He shouldn't ask you if you'll be ready at the movies.
That's like planning it.
When you're finally ready, he shouldn't force it right away like he can't control himself. Kissing should never be planned, it should be in the moment.
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Your cousin is not going to know if you should kiss him or not. yes your cousin may know alot of things but i highly doubt she knows this. The only person he can ask is you and he is. If you dont feel ready to kiss you boyfriend then just tell him. If you feel like you are ready then you should. Its not really a huge deal and kisses are amazing.
have fun
kim:)
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First of all, what on earth would make you think he should talk to your cousin. This is probably something private between the two of you, and of course he would want an answer from you. How's you Cousin supposed to know if you're ready.
Second off, don't worry about kissing him. Just kiss him, it's not like you're losing your virginity or your soul or something out there. If you're scared you won't kiss right, well, he won't care...He'll just be happy he's kissing you. Get Over it and get some Sense!
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It depends on how you feel. You can say yes if you feel comfortable and ready. But if you feel like saying no, than just say no. It's as simple as that. And if you say no, you can still surprise him by kissing him. :0)
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Ok tell your cousin to tell your boyfriend that you are not ready to go that far. If your Boyfriend asks if its true just tell him. If he breaks up with you for something that stupid you dont need him
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Kiss him! It isnt a big deal. Im 13 about to be 14 and I have made out a billion times imean he's your boyfriend!
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just tell him you have never kissed before and are nervous
but its nothing to be nervous about, espeically if he is your boyfriend.
if you honestly arent ready, tell him so. but if its just that your nervous, tell him that as well.
Good luck and happy kissing :)
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Why on earth would he ask your cousin about kissing you? Come on girl that's just silly!
If you are to scared and don't feel ready for kissing, you just say so. Don't be pressured to do something you don't feel ready to do.
If you are scared but want to and are just afraid
you won't do it right, don't be. It isn't that hard. There is even a website that gives kissing tips. I will give it to you just in case you think you might be ready.
Just have fun and don't panic about kissing. It is okay to kiss if you want to. :)
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