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my friend
ok well my best friend is like all over what i do like she does whatever i do like she even has an advicenators and like its so stupid what do u think i should do?
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your her role model. she wants to be just like you. i have friends that do this to me and if it gets to me, i just ask them to stop and they're still my friend. so if if bothers you, you can ask her to stop.
♥jen
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did you ever think your friend may look up to you? well most best friends are alike in many ways. thats how me and my best friend are. we can finish each others sentences and everything. if this annoys you soo much, just ask her to stop.
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Honestly, you should confront her, in a kind, yet to the point way. Tell her that you are flattered that she admires you so much, but she needs to be her own person. If you dont tell her, one day it will all build up, and explode and could potentially ruin your friendship.
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I know how annoying that is, trust me. My little cousin does it to me all of the time and it gets on my nerves. I think you should, or need to tell her even though she could get mad. Try thinking of some things that are your own that she can't do or wouldn't do. You are who you are and she should just try and be herself, let her know that. Let her know that sometimes the things you do you want to do for yourself, not for someone else to copy. Maybe she doesn't even realize she's doing it, she just thinks some of the things you do are a lot more interesting than the things going on in her life, you won't know until you talk to her. Good luck.
P.S: I know that you might not want to talk to her because she might be upset, but it's the only way to get her to stop and realize that what she's doing is bothering you. She won't know unless you tell her.
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Imatating people is annoying and I agree with you but I don't think she realizes that she's doing that. She probablly really likes what you do and how you do it. Since she's your best friend, talk to her. I know it might be uncomftrable but you have to do it or else she won't stop. Be honest with her and if she gets mad, it's not your fault. She will get over it.
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Hey
the only way that you can get her off your back and stop copying you is to just flat out tell her that you think she should stop copying you
but.. in a nice way.. like be polite about it.. or you might lose your friendship
if she is a good friend- she'll appologize and step back (figuratively) and not make a big deal about it
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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