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I wish I had a dad
my dad left my mom about 3 years ago.. I don't hang out with him or anything.. and when I see my friends with their dads having a good time..I always get jealous and wished i had a dad to have a good time with..I also watch shows and get jealous to..what can I do to not get jealous of people cause they have a dad and I don't? It ain't no way I'm spending time with my father.. I don't like him..
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Hey i know what it's like not to have a dad. My dad died when i was 5 and i get jealous a lot too. just tell your friends to lay back on talking about their dad's so much because you dont ever get to see yours. they should understand where you are coming from and that it hurts you.
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Well I think that you should forgive him because I dont know my dad he left when i was 2 and he hasnt called or sent anything for X-mass abd birthdays or anything He dont even call me
So plz forgive your dad because It hurts to know that i have a dad but he dont love me
plz forgive him
i really hope i helped
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The first thing you need to do is forgive your father no matter what has happen,this is the key to your emotional healing as I review you question & comments it sounds like this . . .
someone having an overwhelming desire for chocolate cake but have an equal overwhelming refusal to bake or purchase one and then become jealous of others because they have chocolate cake at home .
You may be wondering how do I forgive my father, you can start by asking God to forgive you for the unforgiveness in your heart toward you dad, and then work toward building a relationship with him and you can do this by writing him a letter ; and if he has a birthday coming up send him a birthday card etc.
in my closing you must forgive your father so you can be healed .
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well im in the same situation my dad left my mom when i was 1 and i hate him alot!! you really dont have to be jealous ecause sometimes it has its benifits!! but if you wanna have a dad figure there try hanging out with your uncle or your friends dad or something !! hope i helped!!
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i know how you feel i havent seen my dad for eleven years.. he moved away when my mom came out of the closet.. just wonderful and i always get jelous but i never show it if you wanna talk im me at risktakerx3 ♥
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Ok first of all I know what you are going through my dad is an absolute ass. As for the jealousy thing you may always wish that your father had been a better man but maybe instead of expending your energy on a the idea of a "perfect" father why not stop and thank your mother for being strong and raising you the best way she can. It is better to have one good parent then 2 crappy ones anyday.
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just trying calling your dad up and maybe hang out with him.
him might have changed.
-the advice butterfly.
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i know how you feel, i see my dad about once every 2years[its always been that way since forever] and i hate him. i dont get jealous because i just think that there are so many people in my situation, im not just the only person without a dad. there is no real trick to stop your emotions but you just gotta be grateful for what you got and not what you dont got, its hard askin this question on this site cause many people wouldnt understand what youre going thru, its hard to give advice on this
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Youre in a pretty tough spot. And im not sure i have a good answer or not. But, im gunna try.
Maybe you can like subsitute youre mom. Like hang out with her more or something.And just try to forget about dads and when you see a movie or something about it dont watch it.
Hope it helps
Good luck
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