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how do i tell my 12 year old friend that shes a slut
My friend that is 12 years old acts really slutty and doesnt have any self-respect. shes really selfish and ugly. she dresses like a corner girl. how should i tell her to straighten up?
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then y do you even hang out with her...okay well u sholud sit down with her and be like i know im not your mother but im getting worried bout you and start off like that and hopefully she understands
-angie
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You don't sound like a very good friend. First of all, saying she is "selfish and ugly" makes me think you're jealous. Also describing her behavior as "slutty" isn't something a true friend would do. If you really want to help her, start seeing her through FRIENDLY eyes not JUDGING eyes. You guys are young, and there is plenty of time for her to grow out of this stage. She could be doing it for attention. Also you need to look at YOURSELF and find out why you're talking so mean about your "friend". Maybe it's you who is selfish and ugly.
And I know I won't get a good rating for this advice, but it's the truth.. so just remember that.
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Ok..so you are saying that your friend is selfish and ugly and acts like a slut. you think she dresses like a corner girl and, um...SHE HAS THE PROBLEM!?! before you can give her advice act more like her friend. i don't care if i get a bad rating for that one it's true. you BOTH should striaghten up.
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If i were you i would tell her very nicly tell her she is revealing too much of her self & try to straighten her up in a nice way.
But if she takes it offensivly then i would just try not to be her friend.
I mean who would want to be sombodys friend who acts like a total slut.
but 1st i would try to be her friend & tell her in a nice way.
Hope i helped.
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Maybe you guys could both go shopping together and pick out clothes for both of you. Then when she goes and picks something out and asks if you like it, just say, uhhh no i don't really like it,, but i think this would look really cute on you! and things like that. hope i helped! <3
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Your friends probably very insecure about herself. If it really bugs you. you should definatly just tell her how you feel. if your honest it will turn out better in the end. Just say it calmly & in person. Make sure you let her know your not trying to hurt your feelings. hope i helped [:
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well, don't beat around the bush. just let her know all of the things that she's been doing wrong (things you think she's done that's slutty), and ask her why she's doing it. u never know, she might open up and have something that's really bothering her and she feels that acting this way would help, but if that is the case, let her know that acting like that won't help her at all! or, if she interrupts a lot, if you want, you can write her a letter listing all the things she's been doing and write about how slutty people end up and that guys only use sluts! tell her that the reason why you are telling her this is because you are her friend & u only want the best for her. tell your feelings in a letter if it's better for you
hope i helped
*muaz*
xoxo
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