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I am in Love with My moms ex_best friends son
My name is Justine, I am 14 and in one month 15, and female
I really like my moms ex-best friends son and I have known him all my life but I am not alowed to see him anymore. He likes me and I like him, but he moved to far away. We sneek around just so we can see each other but its not enough. We call ourselves friends with benifets, but the truth is I am in love with him but I dont know if I should tell him. Hes been my friend for so long, and I dont want to ruin our friend ship just because how I feel What do I do? Do I tell him how i feel any possibly dont talk to him for a long time, or do I keep me Fellings locked inside of me?
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i understand the strong feelings you and john have for each other, but at the same time, it's a little early to start planning marriage. i think you should just enjoy your relationship for now, and let what happens happen. if your parents disapprove, prove to them that it's right for you to be together. approach them maturely, and calmly. don't get all dramatic, that will just make things worse. approach this situation like an adult, and chances are, you will be treated as such. your parents may think that you are too young for such feelings, that it's just hormones, or just a phase or just some sort of crush... they could be right, but they also need to know that it's something the two of you need to figure out on your own. maybe you could let them read your question, and the answers that follow...it might be a good way to "break the ice" to open up the conversation. things will work out the way they are supposed to, and i wish you the best.
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Every time you fall in love, you take a risk. You risk hurting yourself and the one you love. You can risk friendships, making decisions, losing, gaining, and your emotional well-being. If you really do love him then tell him. If he says he doesn't feel the same way, continue being friends. Maybe some day he'll feel the same way about you.
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Dear I am in Love with My moms ex_best friends son,
I think you need to tell him how you feel and he might feel the same way. But if he doesn't that might wreck your friendship. I am not trying to scare you but I do not think it is good to keep things bottled up inside all the time then some time you might just have to explode because you kept it bottled up inside for so long. I do believe that telling someone the truth is the best way to go. Talk to him and bring up the sublject about who he likes and ask him if he likes you and if he quick changes the subject then you know he likes you because he is afraid to tell you how he feels by changing the subject. If he says no then dont get upset because you never told him that you liked him so he didnt hurt your feelings because he doesn't know you like him. Hope I helped!!
<3 Alli
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The only way he would be telling you he loved you is he if said it. :( Thats the only way to know, but him agreeing with the situation shows that he cares a great deal about you :) So thats very cute! IF you love him, tell him. See whats happens.
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Well you should really tell him how you feel, communication is the key.
But being friends with benefits could wreck your friendship even more, because your basicly just using each other. Because you may love him so it doesnt feel like it, but he may not love you so hes most likely jsut using you. But talk to him and sstop sneaking around, because if your mom finds out you will hurt her so much.
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I used to have that "in love" feeling all of the time. I'm 20, so 15 wasn't that long ago for me.
Personally, I don't think you are "in love" with him. I think love is a very strong word and when you do meet the love of your life, you will understand the TRUE meaning.
Although, I would tell him how much you care about him and how good he makes you feel.
I'm sure he will agree and make sure you know his feelings.
Don't rush things. You still have a while.
I'm engaged.. 20... and still a virgin! :)
My advice isn't mothering.. it's just truely experience.
Good luck with the guy!
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