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confidence
Some girls dun look good but they have full, ultimate confidence in themselves. Can someone tell me how they manage to do that?
I look not too bad but i just cant have that much confidence like them. My confidence wavers a lot and is easily shattered. How can i achieve that ultimate confidence? and stay confident for long?
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Hey. I know completely how you feel. I am going to give you the advice tha I follow and hope it helps you out. Pretend you have got cofindence. When you walk or sit and talk with a group of people don't fidget or bite your nails. Keep your head high and think postively about yourself not negatively. When everyone sees how confident you are that is how they will treat you and honestly, I think you get real confidence from that. I always bite my nails when I walk through the halls at school because I feel so out of the picture but when I stop and pretend that I love the way I look, act, dress, etc; people start to respect me and I feel confident from that respect. Good luck, sorry to ramble on about myself a bit, I hope I helped! ♥
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Girls that have over confidence & such.. when they look in the mirror they don't see who they really are. Like, some girls see themselves super skinny, but really there not. & some girls see themselves fat, but there really not. Its just how you naturally are.
But, you can fix that by seeing all your positives, like just look at yourself in the mirror, & say, "I have a pretty smile. My teeth are so striaght & I smile so big." or something. Don't get cocky though. But yeah, it works for me!
Hope I helped you!
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confidence is really something that comes with how you view yourself. you said that you didnt think you looked "too bad" so maybe a good idea might be focusing less on whats wrong and trying more to bring out whats right. [ex. if you think you have pretty eyes maybe try a different and brighter eye shadow]
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For the same reason why there are people on American Idol that suck but think theyre AMAZING. Some people just have a lot of confidence. This is called being cocky if you are OVERLY obsessed with yourself. And its not always about looks either. They might have accepted themselves the way they look because they know they cannot change it. Or, maybe its just an act and they really ARE self concious but they dont want to show their insecurity. To boost your confidence, start writing down one good thing about yourself every day or every time you think of something. If someone says, "Wow! You are such a good dancer!" Write, Im a good dancer. The more you say "I am a good..." The more confidence you will have.
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everyone will have varrying degrees of confidence. even the girls who look like they ALWAYS know what they're doing, they're probably just as unsure of themselves as you at points.
but you're never going to achieve the confidence you want if you keep pointing out your flaws. look for the parts of you that are beautiful!
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Look into your mirror and take some time to notice all of your good points. Whenever you feel a little less confident, remember all of these points.
And remember: confidence is sexier than big boobs or a big butt.
Don't let your confidence get shattered by anything that anyone says about you. You're beautiful!
Smile big and flaunt what you've got.
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