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Hello. I am a rising senior and all my high school days I've been known as the wild/fun girl that could dress. Don't get me wrong I want to maintain that but I want to be more feminie. Maybe a dress and heels, even carry a purse. The only problem is I don't know how to be a gurly girl. I want to be! I want to learn how to carry myself more as a lady. I've always been a tomboy and that has gotten me a little attention but when I start school in the fall I want to be drop dead gorgeous! Please help me!!
well a good place to start if your trying to change your wardrobe is to start wearing skirts more often or maybe get a cute sundress. wear small amounts of make-up if you dont already and if you're having trouble applying anything just ask a friend.
friday morning when i was getting ready for school i put on blush and my dad saw me and was like r u wearing blush? and i said yes, and he told me he didn't wanna see me wear it anymore because i'm too young, (and i'm 13!) and he said that it gives you cancer! i was thinking wtf, but is this true?
no your dad's stupid. and you're a dipshit for listening to him.
OK so I've been dating this guy for a year and I'm totally crazy about him but I'm his first girlfriend and I've dated 2 guys in the past. One of them I dated on and off for almost 2 1/2 years and we are still really good friends. I've only kissed my bf, not like madeout or ne thing but my old b/f and me made out a bunch of times. My best friend thinks I am being dishonest by not telling my new bf about what me and my x have done but he's never asked and it's never been a problem so I don't see why he needs know. Question: am I being dishonest and does my new bf have the right to know or should I leave it because it's in the past?
forget about it. if there isnt anything going on with you and your old bf it doesnt matter. he can assume whatever he wants about you and your old boyfriend.
hey..i just bought an mp3 player & an ipod nano, i was wondering where can i download free music from. is there like websites or something like that? if there is, what websites can i download free songs for my opod & mp3? & how do i download them? thnx! any help is apreciated! =]
go to singingfish.com. just search the song right click on the one you want and click save target as and then open it up from where ever you downloaded it from. oh and its free.
I am going to the beach and I was wondering what some cute but quick hairstyls would be can anyone help?
go to:
http://www.myjellybean.com/summer/beachhair.html
they have a whole bunch of cute hairstyles.
well i'm being told that just doing a bunch of ab exercises will not eliminate the extra fat i have on my lower stomach. i'm being told that i have to do some kind of cardio too, like running. i've always wanted to start running in the mornings or in the evening (like 7:00), but i'm too embarrassed to. i'm 14/f and the only people that run in my neighborhood are adults. i think it is really embarrassing to be the only teen running. and when i do go running i feel really unconfortable doing it. are there any other cardio workouts i can do inside? i really want a treadmill but my mom wont get one. i also have DDR, but it really hurts my feet and i get bored doing it after like 10 minutes so that isn't helping.
thanks!
you could try running up and down the stairs or doing laps in your backyard. or you could ask a friend to come running with you every morning.
ok so i have this bestfriend and we have been best friends for like a year and a half but i have this other bestfriend that has been my friend for like a year and i want to the the year and a hlf best friend that she isn't my number one anymore the friend that i have been friends for a year is but i don't know how to tell her??
first of all what is wrong with you. why are you asking for help on which best friend to chose. you can be friends with both of them and like them both equally without picking a fight by telling your friend that you like someone else better. you could even have both become friends so you would all be best friends. is having two best friends against your religion or something?
what are come colors that look good together and please give me different sets of combos.
thnx much,
miss decorative (muaaaah){>
uhh. basically anything you think looks good. everything goes with white and black.
Well.. I used to be popular, when popular was good. When it was good to be nice & smart. Well yeah I had tons of friends and I wasn't very shy.. But now I'm like really shy. (I'm going to 9th grade--highschool, 14/f) I can talk to people on the internet but in person, I turn red and stuff.. and people just know I'm shy so hardly anyone talks to me. My friends that know the real me.. I'm not at ALL shy around them.. but at school I am? I can't really explain this, but please help. How can I make myself talk to people, not blush, be more outgoing, and make more friends? Thanks!
try and meet a new person everyday. say hi learn their names things like that. or have your friends invite people to hang out with you guys then it wont be so akward if your in a group. try talking on the phone more. its one step up from talking online and one step away from talking in person.
Okay. If I eat one meal a day for 2 weeks, Will I lose that stupid "pouch" of fat under my belly button and on my hips? I need to know soon!
Please don't lecture me about that not being healthy.
you could try eating two meal but have a very light meal for one of them like salad. or you could do like one hundred crunches every night. excersice is a better choice than not eating.
does my boyfriend love me?
no.
Well.. I naturally have darkish brown hair, darkish brown eyes, kinda of thin brown eyebrows and and olive skin tone; pretty much dark. my friend says i look like a mexican hah, but i dont think so. anywho..back to the point. I've tried like every hair color & i'm not sure what looks best on me. please help me decide. either black (eh,not really) red, dark brown with reddish maroonish tint (current) or medium brown with blondish highlights. if you have any other suggestions, please tell me!
i think you should just stick with your natural hair color and maybe highlight it with deep browns and tans. or you could style it different ways if you just want to mix it up.
Yes im the guy who was bossed around by girls
okay sorry. i was getting a little freaked out. my sn is MISS SPIDEY x3. hit me up whenever i'm online and we'll chat up a storm. =]
Hi i cant seem to find your screen name mine is sissymelissa12@hotmail.com
wait why do you want my screen name. are you the guy who was being bossed aroung?
As weird as it sounds I just hate dealing with people.
Sure I do have friends, and I can make friends with people after a while. But I'm so anti social sometimes. I want to start working, but the only reason why I havent gone out to get a job it's because I'm shy and because I mostly dont want to talk to people.
I mean, even with my neighborhood friends [who i met trough my cousin] I dont even want to talk to them because i'm embarrased that I'll bore them or something.
I hate going out when it's not with childhood friends.
I cant even have someone look at me on the streets because I start feeling self concious.
I know it's not Antisocial Personality Disorder because people that have that are suposely aggresive and dont care about anyone's feelings.
What's wrong with me? I just want to know if there's a name for this phobia of meeting new people that I have.
the best thing for you to do is just to try meeting new people. try getting a job and you can practice by saying hi to people who came in and out. you dont have to strike up long conversations with them but just a smile and say hello. dont worry about boring people. not saying anything at all gets pretty boring. try starting conversations about things all of you have in common then you wont get bored and neither will they.
seyi
How do I better my social skills?
I'm pretty shy and I have a fear that people are always judging me which makes it hard for me to approach new people and talk to them and make new friends.
Also its hard to show to a boy I have interest in him, when its so difficult for me to start a conversation with him or have small talk.
It seems like the only time I'm really social and talkative to people I don't really know is after I've had a few drinks.
So how do I over come my shyness and insecurities so I can meet new people and be comfortable around them?
okay i think you should start small. make it a goal for yourself to meet maybe one or two people each day. its going to be hard and your going to feel a little akward but the best way to get better social skills is to socialize. start talking to people who you think might have something in common with you [clothes, music, books,ect.] to make it a little easier. once you can talk to random people it'll make it easier for you to approach a guy and start talking. try to at least make yourself seem more approachable smile [smile when you pass people in the halls, give a small wave] so when you want to talk to someone they dont remember you as that unfriendly kid they saw last week.
i hope i helped. =]
I realllly want the song "Failure By Designer Jeans" by From First To Last.
Does anyone know where i can download/buy it? (a site, not Limewire)
thanks in advance
use www.singing fish.com search the song, right click and click save target as. wherever you saved it to it'll be there and you can play it whenever you want. and its free. =]
Can you shave your legs using soap and will it give you razor burn?
uhh. if your going to use soap you should mix it with something else. or use a shower gel. soap isnt advised for shaving though. try borrowing some of your dad's shaving gel every once in a while he wont notice and its safer.
I KNOW IT'S LONG BUT I WOULD APPRECIATE ANY HELP
i use to be a very confident girl. i've never really had problems of thinking that i was ugly or anything like that. i mean, i'm not conceded but i always found myself not to be so bad-looking. i'm not overweight. but lately, i've found myself thinking that i just look fat in everything! everyone says that i look fine, but i still want to lose weight. i've tried absolutely every diet that you could imagine. when starving myself didn't work, i tried to eat normal, i did portion control. i did jenny craig. i did it all! i drink like a cuzillion water bottles a day and work out like a beast. but nothing....... what's wrong with me? no matter how hard i try i only seem to loose like a pound per month. it really sucks! sooo i have two questions that go with this problem:
what can i do to make myself lose this weight a bit faster? is there any magic diet or magic weight loss tea that i can have? i would feel so much more confident if i just lost a few pounds and if in about a week, I could look just a little thinner (special event). and why haven't i been able to lose them faster???
and my next question is:
why is it that i've stuck all of this in my head NOW????? i've never been a self-concious girl..... ever! everyone tells me i have a cute little figure. everyone tells me that i'm really pretty. why am i getting this way now? i just don't know why i'm so self-concious and why i don't see what everybody is telling me that I am?
help is appreciated. i thank you from the bottom of my heart
i dont think you need to do anything to lose weight. if your just becoming self consious then thats what's causing you to believe your overweight. what you should do is come up with a list of reason why you are fabulous. put it in a place you will see is and add at least one new thing every day. everyone gets self consious about somethings every once in a while but the people who have the most confidence focus less on their flaws and more on their good qualities.
hope i helped
seyi
13/f
okay well i want to get something done to my hair thats different because ryte now its just....normal its wavy and thick and long...and i hate it...so i was just wondering if any1 had any ideas that might look good?
thankss -rosemarie-
I think a good solution to your problem would be to style it in a different way every day. you should experiment and see what you like best. braids, buns, pigtails, curl it, straighten it, etc. just see what you like.