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"hook up"
ok i really like this guy but there's a problem. i went to my friends house last week and we went to his house but then after that he asked me if i would "do stuff with him" meaning like a bj and stuff. anyway i really like him but he doesent want a girlfriend because he just got out of a long relarionship. and i do want to do that stuff but i cant because im scared but i really want to. but he doesent want a girl friend and i dont know if i can handle just being a person he says to "have fun with" please help me i rate high! thanks . p.s im going to his house friday!
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if you cant handle being the person "just to have fun with" then dont be. he doesnt like you enough to go out with you, and would just be using you. stay away from guys like that.
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If you give him what he wants he will never respect you and he will never want a relationship from you because he knows he can get what he wants. But tell him that you like him and you want him to respect you.
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Hey, do what you want but let me translate that for you:
HIM: "Hey, I'm not interested in you and I don't respect you, I'm pretty much just hoping your a random slut who I can get some head from until I meet someone better, what do you think?"
YOU:" Um, I have to think about it"
It's up to you.
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Don't do it. If he only wants to hang out with you so you could do stuff with him, it's not worth it because he's just going to use you & probably a couple easy girls that would do that with him. Sorry, I know that sounds mean, but if he doesn't really like you back, then in the end you're just going to get hurt & regret what you did. If you want to do that stuff, wait until you find somebody that you like & they really like you back so that way, you won't regret it later on.
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I can't advise you to get into a friends with benefits relationship. He's the only one getting the benefits!
If you give in and do things with him he is never going to date you as a girlfriend. He will just use you when he's horny. I hate to be crude but that's all you will be to him. Why should he spend money dating you when you will give it to him for nothing?
Think about it real good before you agree to something like that. You will get hurt in the end. It just isn't worth it, no matter how much you like the guy. :)
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