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i dont know what this feeling is
i feel very frusterated and my lower back seems to have a lot of tension i am also questioning everything i do my faith sexuality so on and so on i do not want to feel this way what is wrong with me? why am i getting this feeling? has anyone else had it? please help me i have been feeling like this on and off since april.
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i dont know how old you are but it seems to me that your gon througth the change. you may be developing into who you are. we all do it.
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haha, it sounds like you're simply hitting puberty. i have no clue what age you are, but it just sounds like puberty to me. everyone i know has gone through this. you're not a freak i swear it. hope i helped
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Questioning things means that you are trying to make sense of yourself and understand yourself better. This is a good thing in the long run, though right now it might be painful or confusing.
What questioning allows you to do is think about your values, experiences, and personality - this means that when you come to a decision or realization about yourself, it is the correct one.
For example, many people are born into a faith system and just stick to it their whole lives without questioning anything. Is this real faith? I would argue that having doubts, exploring, and then coming to an understanding will lead you to a more genuine and honest place.
Faith and sexuality are two huge issues that deserve some time to be explored.
This tension and confusion could be affecting your back, or it could be something else. Try to think back and remember if there was a specific day it began hurting, or if you did anything that might have caused it to get strained.
With regards to your back tension and all of your confusion, you need to figure out a way to help yourself cope. This could be talking to friends, journalling, taking jogs in the evening, painting, taking bubble baths - whatever it is that gives you an opportunity to relax.
Best of luck.
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I want to say this is a phase, because for me it was. But its quite different for everyone else, we all question things some point in life, until we clarified what we are questioning we wont know. You need to ask yourself "why" .. why are you questioning thsese things? Because once you find why, you'll find how to fix it. :)
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First of all, there's nothing wrong with you. Everybody goes through this. It's a matter as to what extreme though. I'm 15 now and I've had the same feelings you described since I was like 9. I wouldn't worry about going to a doctor. Except maybe for the back pains. Everybody questions these kinds of things. They probaly don't want other people to know about them though because they feel it's not normal.They feel other people don't go through these kinds of feelings. If you go to some sort of quack, all there going to want to do is put you on some sort of medication and make you like a zombie, so they can make money. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. I may be young, but I've been through a lot and have talked to a lot of people. Your just going through a stage that everyone goes through. Trust me. Talking about it can help a lot though.
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yah i had it. My mom wanted therapy, which i didn't. its probably strong sadness. I hate to use the word depression, since depression shouldn't be taken lightly. I seriously suggest asking your parents. Not a friend. Maybe a brother or sister if you have one. Therapy isnt for everyone. its not for me. i say to people "some people like ketchup, some people don't. I like ketchup, but hate therapy"
My "sickness" lasted from age 12-14. It was terrible. Just know that it will pass. It comes with hard times, especially when being an adolescent. IM me anytime. rocksaltchick@aol.com
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