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camping trip
14/f
my parents and i are going on a camping trip this weekend and they said i could invite one friend with us. well, this is really hard for me, because i can only invite one person, and i have two best friends. we always hang out together, but sometimes i do things with just each of them alone. i already mentioned the trip when we were all hanging out together and they both said they want to come. well, that was before my parents told me i could only bring one person, and i don't know who i should pick. one of them, hayley, said she might not be able to go because her parents are really overprotective and wouldn't want her to go for the entire weekend. my other friend, rachel, could probably go, but at this point it seems like it's a 50/50 chance that either of them could go for sure. i like both of them the same, and i have the same amount of fun with each of them. does anyone know what i should do or which i should pick?
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Well i guess if you had to pick i would pick Rachel because Haley has already said she might not be able to go but Rachel said she porbably could. But if they can both end up going then talk to them both together and ask if one really donst want to go as much as the other. If this doesnt work and you would feel so bad if u picked one friend and not the other then, if you have a close cousin or someone you hang out with?
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I would ask Rachel, because she seems more reliable to go. Then I would explain to Hayley about how you could only invite one person and she seemed like it wasn't for sure. Then I'd spend the day with just Hayley so you guys can have some one on one time before you go on your trip. When you return, I wouldn't mention the trip unless Hayley asks. Then I would say. "It was fun but we wish you were there." Also, same thing goes for Rachel is she can't go but Hayley can. Hope this helps!
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First, you should find out whether hayley can go for sure. If she cant, then obviously pick Rachel. If she can, then tell both of them you can only pick one and you dont want to make the decision, so let them do it. It'll probaly work out fine so dont worry just talk to both of them.
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First tell them you can only bring one person along. Maybe one of them will decide to let the other go.
Haley needs to ask her parents what is going on soon. If she can't go, its an easy choice.
You could also ask mom for advice. Maybe, just maybe she will let you bring both. :)
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well if were you i wouldn't take either of them because even though they know they are both good friends, i wouldn't want to be unfair to one of them..if you do decide to choose someone you should make sure they both know that you like them the same and have the same amount of fun with each of them..hope everything works out and hope i helped
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