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Made Fun Of
I'm a girl, and I act like a guy a lot. I also hang around guys all the time..literally. This girl and her friends always ask me, "Are you gay? I think you're gay." And I say something like, "Liking guy things does not determine which gender I like!" And I even called her a fat b*tch (she is fat). She just won't stop.
What do I do?
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Shove a chair up her ass.
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you shouldn't care what those people think of you. so what if you chill with boys a lot and act like one, that's your choice, and there is nothing wrong with that, you are just interested in the same things as guys are. you need to tell them that you just are more interested in hanging out with guys, because you have fun with them, let them know you are not gay, and then leave it go, and just from now on ignore them, but don't go and call her a fat b*tch, that would cause you to be just as bad as she is. 2 wrongs do not make a right. be nice, and don't let it bother you because you have friends, that like you for you, and if they can't except you for who you are, then that's their problem. don't let this bother you, stand up to them, but be nice about it, then once you talk to them , get over it and move on! i hope i helped, any further questions, you may email me x3brose08@yahoo.com
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Everytime just smile at her as you remember that later in life, you will visit home and find that she is still working at her sad prepster clothing store making minimum wage. And because you have self confidence and have the courage to be who you are, you will have reached the stars and have a fantastic life.
So, just smile.
And remember.
You rule, and she is just a little drone. =D
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Ignoring her is the best, but please don't be a pushover (it doesn't sound like you are). Stand up for yourself and don't let this ho push you around. If she says "I think you're gay", my response would be "I think you're fat and ugly". Of coure that solves nothing, the best would be to ignore her until she looses interest.
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They used to call us Tom boys. Thats what I would call you.
Try not to let it bother you. The more you argue with them the more they are going to try and get you mad. They are stupid...they don't know any better.
I might be tempted next time to say "Why? you interested honey?" But, probably you should just ignore them. :)
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so your a tom boy, so what, thats cool. Be yourself, and stuff the rest of the world. Whatever makes you happy.
I can kinda relate, being with guys, is hell fun, you dont have the problems of bitchiness, whos wearing what, and you dont have to be slutty to be popular.
girls are so shallow and bitchy, whereas guys make good reliable friends. There is no ridiculous competition when hanging with your guy mates.
good luck
when she says are you gay, say "what if I am, are you interested, that should piss her off"
sorry a bit of immaturity there..teheheh
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Say, "Yes. I am gay. Got a problem with that?" (Yes, even if it's not true!) and just move on. Honestly, getting angry at her and calling her names isn't going to solve anything. That just shows that she's getting to you. Smile, laugh it off, and show her that she DOESN'T bother you. It's not you she cares about anyway, it's her own insecurities. There's really nothing else you CAN do about it.
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