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MySpace Crisis


Question Posted Saturday April 29 2006, 4:20 pm

This may sound a little stupid bit i dont know what to do. For what me and my friend did,we might of caused everyone in our school to get their myspace accounts caceled! It all happend when my friend made this fake girl named Alison a profile. She did it so this boy that is a total loser who is obbsesed with me could start liking her and not me anymore. He liked this "girl" Alison soo much that he gave her his adress,number, and wanted to meet her so he could take her out! Hez so stupid! What if it was like a 40year old guy!EEEWW! So he gave her(really me and my friend) his password and we changed his profile and wrote pretty funny stuff and changed his password,lol. Anyway,now he was obbsesed with her, and at school that is all he would talk about!Then oneday,he found out from someone(?) that she wasnt real! He was pretty mad and humileated(however you spell it) for a while, but then he got over it. Then oneday he started sending some pretty harsh things to my fiend because she is a little overweight and her sister found out and was SOOO mad. She sent him a message telling him that they(her friends) were going to beat him up,lol. The little wimp told his mom whotold the principal and now my friend is in trouble because she took the blame for her sis.But then, he mentioned the Alison thing and said my name!!! They are going to call my dad,afer he had JUSTseen all that bad stuff about myspace on the news!What the hell should i do!!! IR5s!!!! :0 &hearts he'll be so f****** pissed!

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Foundsoul answered Monday May 1 2006, 12:47 pm:
What you should do here is simple. Sit back and take the consequences of your actions. Clearly you know that you were wrong in humiliating this boy so much. Your father may appreciate it more if you accepted your punishment and the fact that you had done wrong. It shows maturity and responsibility on your part.

If it was me, I would go and tell my father first, before the school ever had a chance to do anything about it.

I do hope you have learnt a very valuable lesson about all this though. Its not fair to humiliate someone so much, just because they have feelings for you and you dont feel the same. If it was the other way around, chances are, you would never want to go out through the door again. Did you really expect him to sit back and do nothing, knowing that you and your friend had messed with his head and his feelings this way?

Like I said, come clean to your father. He will be very mad at you, of that there is no doubt, but it will show you to be mature enough to admit where you are wrong.

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Paper_Heartsz answered Sunday April 30 2006, 7:10 pm:
That is kind of a harsh thing to do with this guy. and I have a story that is similar to that as well and I still feel bad about it.

To be completely honest, you should have just came up to this boy, and told him how you feel, and it would just be better if you two just remained classmates/friends.

If that happened to me, I would be pretty pissed off myself. But the best thing you can do is tell this boy your really truely sorry (not just you, but your friend, as well) and hope he forgives you.

I would have deleted my myspace before my dad even finds out, but that's just me.

This kid must be really dumb if he gave out his address, phone number, password and everything personal out on the internet, cause anyone could just simply "Copy & Paste" it.

Well, hope you don't get in too much trouble, even though you deserve it. =[

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karenR answered Saturday April 29 2006, 5:56 pm:
Truthfully, this is exactly the kind of thing that your dad is hearing about on the news.

When people abuse something they have to pay for their actions. You will be lucky not to be sued for the kids pain and suffering...in this world of sue happy people it could happen.

You both had to have known it was wrong but you did it anyway. Sorry to say anything you get will be much deserved. :(

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xo_tragicglamour answered Saturday April 29 2006, 5:38 pm:
That was a really stupid thing that you did to a guy that liked you. It probably humilated him and made him so angry when he found out. You're just going to let what happens happen because there is no way that you can prevent it. You can't just stop the principle from telling your dad or something. Also, if you don't want your dad to see your myspace, you shouldn't have made an account in the first place if you knew he wouldn't approve of it. I guess you could delete your account before he finds out so they don't have proof ...? Haha.

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pinkpatchgrl answered Saturday April 29 2006, 4:57 pm:
Sorry, but I'm brutally honest. I think you should take what set yourself up for. You played with a guy's heart and humiliated him. I could understand why he would be angry at you and your friends, and then your friend's sister threatens him ontop of humiliation.
What you should do is appologize to the guy, tell him that you didn't like him like you thought he liked you. You just took it too far.
As for your dad- Tell him what you did also. You can't put yourself in the victim's shoes for this. You have to be honest with him and tell him what you did. If getting your myspace cancelled is the outcome, so be it. Maybe now you won't pick on people after this.

-Karen-

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Vanity answered Saturday April 29 2006, 4:49 pm:
Not much you can do. You're screwed and hopefully, you've learned your lesson about picking on other people you consider less important than yourself.

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xEVYx answered Saturday April 29 2006, 4:48 pm:
If I were you, I'd talk to my dad before anyone else did. Just sit him down and tell him you didn't intend on what you did to go so far. Tell him you learned your lesson and it won't happen again. Just be honest with him and don't lie, it'll only make things worse! good luck

♥ Evy

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