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this girl is going to ruin me and my boyfiend's relationship
There is this girl at my school that knows my boyfriend somehow and i think she likes him. He deosn't even know her that well but whatevr. Anywho she said she is going to call my boyfriend and tell him I'm cheating on him. well the thing is i'm not and i would never do that to him bcuz i love him so much. Idk who he will belive tho!!! wut can i do to stop her. and if she does tell him how will i tell him that i didn't cheat on him? I'll rate!!!!
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Tell him about the girl, and what she plans on doing before she does it. That way he will be prepared to tell her that he already knows the truth.
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I think you need to have a chat with your boyfriend. Let him know what's going on. Find out what his take on the whole issue is.
As for the girl, I would totally ignore her. She is trying make you angry and jealous. Don't give her the satisfaction of letting it work. In reality she is jealous of you and what you have, and she is trying to wreck that for you. Don't let her!!
Why are you unsure who your boyfriend will believe? I mean really, that shouldn't even be an issue. If he loves you, and trusts you, and you've never given him any reason to be suspicious, then of course he will believe you. If he takes a practical strangers word over yours, then maybe you're with the wrong person.
I'm sure it will all work out....good luck!!
Brenda
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Well go up to her the next day at school, tap her on the shoulder, and when she turns around hit her in the face! lol... jk. Well you definently need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him what is going on. Tell him that she confronted you at school and told you that she was going to call him and tell him all this bullshit to try and break you guys up. If you feel like it, also confront her about it and tell her that she really needs to stop being manipulative and to stop trying to steal your boyfriend because it is not going to work. Tell her to back off and stop calling your boyfriend. Let her know there will be consequences to her actions if she doesn't. Don't threaten her of course, but make it clear to her that you are not going to back down. And if possible, find some dirt on the girl. I'm sure there is something you could find out about her that she doesn't want people to know. If she is going to be mean, then be mean right back. Need anymore advice then note back my inbox. Best of luck!
~Sherah
PS) How did she get your boyfriend's number in the first place? And when did she go up and tell you her scheme?
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You need to call your boyfriend and tell him whats going on.
If he hears from you that she said she was going to do this then he will no what to expect and can cut her off before she even gets started.
Also, if you talk to him about it she has no threats to hold over you. Just tell her he knows all about her and her lies so she can just go ahead. She probably won't even try it and maybe it will embarrass her too.
If your boyfriend cares for you as he should, talking to him about the problem will only strengthen your relationship. :)
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