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16/f and I'm just very self concsious about my..ears. Theyre really..too big. People even tell me. I think I get them from my dad. I dont know. But its not like they stick out, the whole entire thing is just..big. Theyre about a centimetre away from being..3 inches. I used to be called dumbo when i was little and earrings always took bad on me. I dont want to get plastic surgery haha. But i just dont know what to do about me feeling so embarassed about them. I know that they are big becase people tell me..and pretty much the fact that theyre almost 3 inches long. What should i do?
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Grow your hair out and wear it down to cover them.
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Save up the money for surgery and hide them under your hair or hats right now. I had a friend who did that and shes now a gorgeuos model.
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I answered a question a little bit like yours. This girl was a sixteen year old female like you and she was feeling insecure about her smile and her nose. She wasn't wanting to do any surgery either, not that I'd advise that.
What I told her was that these things cannot be changed and shouldn't because without these insecurities, we wouldn't feel as good about our good traits and features we like on our bodies. Without pain we wouldn't feel as good when we feel pleasure. Your every different physical feature is all apart of you and you may not like it, but it's what makes you yourself. Your ears attract a lot of attention, and I know that it's not the kind of attention you are comfortable with, but think about it: without the way your ears are, you just wouldn't be as you as you are now.
A lot of times, girls have these insecurities that are tiny and blown out of proportion. I'm sure that you've had a friend who didn't like something about herself and you thought it was great on her. And even if this insecurity isn't blown out of proportion, you can learn to love that part of you. I know you think that it will never happen, but you'll probably begin to love it on yourself. And a lot of girls do learn to love their features that they were humiliated of at first.
-TheTeenGirl
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my ears are fairly large too. I found that having one hole in them just kind of pointed out how bare and fat the rest of my lobe was, so I now have three holes and my cartlidge done. It kind of draws the eye away from how big your ear is, and to the jewlery, plus leaves less skin visible. I usually stick to studs, usually sparklyish ones, because I still don't think I can pull of the dangly ones.
Other than that the only thing you can do is wear your hair down, or just laugh it off. I think it'd be better to start making a joke with it, beat them too the punch line that way they see you're comfortable with yourself, and nothing is more appealing than someone with self confidence.
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your so not alone. the woman known as the first international super model has large ears and she is beautiful as im sure you are! its not a flaw like you think it is.. it just adds to who you are and your specialness. her site is www.twiggylawson.co.uk if you want to see her pictures and how she makes large ears look good. she was recently on a season of america's next top model with tyra banks. your so not alone.'
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