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how do you know if ur bi my friend thinks she might be
14/f (shes already gone through puberty)
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Bisexuality is being sexually oriented towards both sexes.
If she is attracted to both males and females, that is what being bisexual is.
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Girls have a more open and changeable sexuality than boys. I watched a TV show on female sexuality and it proved that females are arroused more easily by more topics than males. This is to do with evolution: it would be safer for a female's body to be turned on when in the act of sex than not (i.e. no tearing or ripping -ew!).
Sexuality is a pretty vague topic, I wouldn't get weighed down by terms so early, with the post-puberty and the raging of the hormones etc. She finds only one girl attractive, one guy, a couple of girls, some guys, guys who like like girls, girls who look like guys, it doesn't matter! It may all change in a flash, and is likely to settle later in life.
I've heard that if you fancy the pants off a girl, as opposed to wanting a relationship with her, that reads as essentially straight.
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well im bi so i think i could help you out
it takes awhile to be sure
like if you see a girl and you think wow shes really cute! you could just be curious... but you know how with a guy you think about dating them and being with them and just kissing them and more than that ;)... well thats when you know.
you just feel the way you would with a guy... only without the dick
its gona be weird but youll get used to it
i suggest for now you keep your sexual orientation to yourself it can only cause problems at this age
but by all means do NOT lie and date whoever you want
just tell people "its none of your concern"
dont be ashamed of who you are besides theres nothing wrong with liking girls!
just follow your heart and youll know how you really feel about girls... you have a ton of time to figure everything out no worries!
good luck love
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Well, a few months ago I found myself thinking about the exact same thing. I'm still not exactly sure, as some people said before me, it's not something you can just decide over night.
I've already gone through puberty myself, and I started feeling a slight attraction to the same sex, and the opposite sex at the same time.
Just remember, her having feelings for one person of the same sex doesn't truly make her a bisexual. What you don't want to do is put pressure on her, or make her feel excluded. I know the feeling, and it's not a nice one. You'll want to be supportive, if you can, so that she'll feel comfortable with telling you after she's made the decision herself.
I'm not exactly sure how this helps, but it might be useful either way.
//chantal
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OH..MY..GODDNESS! It doesn't matter if you've gone through purberty or not. It's a natural feeling you develope. You and your friend need to not label herself at all b/c she's young and this may change in one year or two. Depending on the feelings and hormones teenagers have it's normal to be confused or just choosy on the sex and gender you like. Don't label yourself it causes problems just let this feeling flow and take it's course. Dont fight it or force this feeling she's having. Ur friend and you shud look on the internet about bisexuals and lesbians and about about how do you know if she is. No one can tel you that really it's JUST A NATURAL FEELING YOU HAVE ABOUT A PERSON OF THE SAME OR DIFFERENT GENDER! It helps to get find some internet resources. Also if you find out in this moment that you may like girls and guys for right know as your attraction don't thing your strange. Your still a person, but with more choices and benefits (a got point of view).Hope i helped!!
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most of the time people can tell if they are bi if they look at the same sex and they feel attracted to them but it could also just be a phase give it some time and ask her if she feels attracted to any girls..and if she answers yes then she might be bi...hope i helped
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Well a lot of people go through a time when they look at the same sex and may find them attract, but for the most part they are just curious. The question that might answer your question is "Would your friend be willing to do anything sexual with someone of the same sex" ie- kissing, sex...
If the answer is yes then she's probably bi if the answer is no then she is most likely just curious.
Give it some time and see if she still is attracted to females it might just be a phase.
Hope I helped =)
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If she wants to kiss girls she might be bi.
Meh.
Honestly, sexuality isn't something you can just figure out over night. Tell your friend not to rush herself, she is still very young. There is plenty of time to pick labels. The important thing to figure out is how to be happy and comfortable with yourself, no matter what your orientation.
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Uhmm well i dunno if i can help you out because im not bi but you could tell your friend to try searching in google,"how to tell your bisexual" or "i think im a bisexual",or "signs of being bisexual" because google almost always helps. i hope that helps your friend out!
♥ danielle
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