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Ok, I'm a 13/f who LOVES helping out the community. I do community work all of the time and I mean I make brownies and other deserts for the hospitals and nursing homes, I do all of my chores and get good grades. BUT I'm not a dork or anything. I mean I go out with my friends on weekends that I'm not helping out with a commuity service project or something. And I have a million friends. And I mean I'm never really happy. But is being too happy, and too helpful a turn off for guys? Because I'm not ugly (I'm a model I can't be ugly) but I still have only had 2 boyfriends in my life. When like EVERYBODY else who I'm friends with has had like at least 10. I rate 5 to any answer. thanks, Samm <33
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You probably intimidate people, and from what i see, maybe you are to cocky and they might be afraid of not having enough time to hang out with you because you are so buisy.
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the thing is, is that some guys can tell if a women has too much to have time for something as trivial as a boyfriend. hell, i met this one girl, beautiful blue eyes, great personality, but she seemed like she's too busy for anything like that. besides you should focus more on youreself rather than relationships, cuase if you do then things will get a lil more complecated. Don't worry though, all good things come to those who wait. Hope it helps
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Wow, 10 boyfriends at the age of 13?
Don't worry, I'm 14 and I have never had a boyfriend.
This is great, the way you are serving your community and getting good grades. You are going to be very sucessful in future years (ha I sound like a fortune cookie!). But really, I don't think that guys won't like you just because you do all this and are happy with your life! Come on, guys mature slower than girls so don't worry about it. If they don't like/respect your ideals, then they are not for you.
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Don't think that what you do is wrong and pushes guys away. If anything that gives you more oppertunities to meet new people and guys too. No offence or anything, but does 10+ boy/girlfriends sound like a good thing? I mean it sounds to me that those have not worked out too well and probably not lasted long either. By the way, looks are rarely a factor for a friendship and/or relationship...think about it though: are you looking for somebody who is going to like you for what you look like? Don't put yourself down and keep your head up. Despite what others may say, all of those things you do could get you to meet great people that you would have never met before and is always a good thing. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Perhaps you just haven't met the right guy. When I met my husband, he told me that one of the things that attracted him to me was the fact that I cared about other people. Like you, I was involved in community and volunteer work. Just keep doing what you're doing. You're still young and have plenty of time to find your Mr. Right. I didn't meet my husband until I was 22.
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