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ok i just started going out with this guy yesterday and today at school he was seriously CLINGY and he said he loved me at the end o the day i was so freaked out how should i act around him what to i say cuz im not even sure if i like him anymore PLEASE HELP SOON 5's for anyone who helps at all
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You shild say to him, "I need some space. Could you please back off a little." If he keeps being clingy, you might want to dump him. But if you really like him, then don't dump him, just talk to him. "I need my space." and "Could you maybe back off a little." are some good things to say.
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If he said i love you the first day, I don't think so. He is more of the guy who is--more of the lust over love type. He just wants you to think he cares, and then it will be a wam, bam, thank you ma'am and its over. We mean, it may sound harsh but that is definitely the way a guys mind works. A guy who is clingy is definitely not good. He will smother you and you're gonna want out, and you want this over before it starts. we are sure he cares about you, but I love you in the first day--thats a little overboard. Good Luck ;)
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Ew isn't it just so creepy when someone who you don't know that well is like "I love you"!?!? I had a boyfriend that used to do that before we'd even been dating a month. ::shudders::
If you still like him- ask him to hang out and tell him to take it slow because love is a big emotion.
If you don't like him anymore- tell him you want to hang out but you just want to be friends. If he persists just tell him you're not into him like that.
For just acting about him in general just be casual and don't let him know you're uncomfortable. I don't know how old you are but emotions come and go fast- you shouldn't have much to worry about soon enough.
Good luck
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If you don't like him and see nothing worth still being with him (compare your feelings now to your feelings about him before your date yesterday) dump him, don't be in a bad, confused mood for his sake. If you think he has potential still, tell him you want him to lay off a bit and that you're kinda icked out, but are still interested if he can cling less.
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Tell him your not ready for such a serious relationship yet. If he doesn't understand break up with him, its the experience game when ur at school, ull know you don't want to be with him in the future and you dont need someone clinging on to you when your just wanting a bit of fun. Good Luck hun.
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let him know the situation and that hes rushing into things and that youa aren`t ready to hear those words yeT ! [♥]Lej
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Let him know how you feel. Tell him that he is coming on to strong and you would be much more comfortable if he didn't act clingy.
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You need to tell this guy to back off a little. Telling you he loves you at the end on one day going out is a little excessive. You guys need some time to get to know each other and stuff. Just tell him you need him to be a little less.... clingy... If he can't do that, just let him go. You can't possibly know that you love someone after only one day. And if you don't even like him anymore.. don't waste your time.
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