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a little help here?
15/f
Ok... this really is for guys only but if girls want to give an opinion. I just have a question... why do guys not like me. I mean... every girl in my class that is so annoying and so holding a leash on their boyfriends has a boyfriend but not me. And you're probably thinking that i just want to go out because everyone else is. Um... no. I just want that special relationship with the right guy is that too much to ask? Guys just don't like me for some reason, though. I'm not that bad looking.. im not that skinny but not that huge. I have an awesome let loose personality. I'm into stuff like action, comedy, a few chick flick but it's limited... and I love going to games and stuff... idk.. why am i still single?
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I think its because its just not your time yet. stuff like this happens to lots of attractive girls. dont worry so much about it. it will happen when you least expect it, maybe even sooner, you never know? also guys get intimidated fast by an attractive girl they might think they cant get you. i guess try to be more outgoing and flirty!!!
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Before being a girlfriend, you'll have to someway or another be a friend to the guy. Try not to look so much for a relationship first, isntead try to find and build on friendships. Through those friendships, you will probably better see who is better for you and who you are better for. Trust me on this one - if you are patient and do wait, it will be worth it. Just because you don't have a boyfriend at the moment, does that make you a bad person, or mean that you are not as good as the other girls? Of course not! The way I see it, at the moment you are not in the position where you could get hurt in a relationship if something happens. So instead of seeing it as missing out on good things, you could also see it as avoiding bad possibilities. Your looks don't matter at all - why be liked for what you look like? If you have a killer personality, then stick to it; if a guy can't even see that in you and like you as a friend for it, then is he really worth it? Just be patient, good things come to those who wait. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Do you give guys the impression that you like them? Do you hang out with guys a lot? Are you really really picky about dudes? If a guy you may not be interested in asks you out, do you say no? Consider these and other questions on your odyssey for a boyfriend. But guys really aren't worth it. Neither are girls. So my advice is:become asexual.
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I have to be a pain in the butt here.
How many boys have you asked how? How many have you persued? How many have rejected you? If you HAVE been rejected, then you're here for the right reason.
But otherwise... We all want "someone special". I'm not mocking you, I'm twenty-two and I wish I could find someone worth my time! Alas, quality people seem few and far between.
If you have that awesome personality, let it shine. Talk to boys, interact - but don't settle. Really do find someone special. And if you don't, remember: Boys in high school may not be all there. Be patient and focus on how awesome you are, and how a boy would be LUCKY to be with you.
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I'm sure you'll get a boyfriend one day. It takes time. I always thought I'd never get a boyfriend because it seemed like no guys liked me or anything.. then in November my boyfriend asked me out. I was wondering if I was dreaming because I thought no one would ever ask me out. lol. But you'll get one someday. =)
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aw, really. stop worrying about it.
i was exactly like you for the longest time.
NO ONE liked me. most of my friends agree with me: once you stop wanting a boyfriend, he'll just come to you.
you're probably thinking "yeah, yeah, but can't stop and i can't wait."
but if you really aren't looking for that advice..do you hang out with guys out of school?
as your parents if you can have a movie night with a few guys and girls. make sure they aren't couples though. watch your favorite movie that guys would enjoy..or just one everyone wants to see. make sure there is at least one guy there you are interested in. just be yourself, laugh and have fun. if you don't hang out with them after school, they feel like they don't really know you..and they don't like to go out with girls they don't know. so just stop wanting a boyfriend..and look for guy friends that could eventually develop into a relationship. all of my boyfriends were friends first...even if it was jsut for a short amount of time.
good luck! if you need anything else, feel free to drop one in my inbox. =).
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